I got my weiner cutoff, no longer a DJ..

[GaryUranga]

now that I got your attention.. the real title

Dealing with competitionand interest levels

Alright, I was never clear before about this situation.. heres the deal I met this girl lets call her L about 1 year ago through my friend, shes 17 and she lives in another town, I was instantly attracted to her physically, my friend lets call him B told her how I was awesome at "advice" so it started pretty bad, I got her on msn and she asked me for advice on this 1 guy, I went AFC so badly on her.. I told her I liked her, that woulda instantly put me intofriend zone, however I escaped it, things went good, her interest in me just kept growin we made plans to see eachother again this summer, possibly my first sex... Id hope, anyways recently we had a few fights about how it wasnt gonna workout, etc.. (btw I still game girls that actually live here but the one I got the best connection withis this girl.. ) well it had a rollercoaster effect for her she was pretty downabout it.. thats when I messed up cause it did affect me too and I acted like a complete AFC kissing up to her after those "fights" I could sense her interest level fall.. now this kid shows up, 1 year younger than her and starts hitting on her, he acts pretty afc.. thing is this guy can actually be there with her so I cant compete with him.. also her interest levels on me are pretty low now so she might actually go for this afc.. and I cant compete vs him I was REALLY lookin up for this summer with her specially cause of the connection.. funny enough my interest for her is dropping too

should I give it a break? should I ignore? should I try to fix it?

I wanna know if interest can grow back up in both her and me.. I really wanted the wild sex summer to happen I wanna know about you guys whove had experience being on and off with girls, also I NEED to learn to balance how Ishow attraction and how I tease her cause sometimes I gotooafc showing attraction or too ashole on the teasing

 

[Dark Haired Alpha]

funny enough my interest for her is dropping too

still high enough to make posts about how to get her, hmmm

 

[kizza]

i'm no expert, but seems you still want her. so go for it, just use C+F and the usual stuff - stop the AFC. if you want the 'wild sex' then its atleast worth a try? you either get it or not.

atleast if you try to talk to her, you're more likely to get it.

i think some quote i read here, which relates to this is: you miss 100% of all chances you don't take

so take the chance and talk to her.

 

[qweretyuiopas]

hope u can get your weiner back dude
(yeah i didnt read the post)

 

[The Shocker]

I didn't read your post (too long) but I would say your only option is to go gay. Once your azz takes cack you'll never go back.

 

[GaryUranga]

Ive been pretty available lately.. Im going to stop that.. also my interest is dropping but I still do like her enough to post this just that the attraction is low

 

[GaryUranga]

it isnt just sex, this is one girl Ive always had that chemistry-flow with, its not just a face and body

 

[Berlex]

ouch that sux

 

[GaryUranga]

indeed, I found out she actually likes this guy.. so yeah, time to move on I guess.