"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I got my weiner cutoff, no longer a DJ..

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GaryUranga

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now that I got your attention.. the real title

Dealing with competitionand interest levels

Alright, I was never clear before about this situation.. heres the deal I met this girl lets call her L about 1 year ago through my friend, shes 17 and she lives in another town, I was instantly attracted to her physically, my friend lets call him B told her how I was awesome at "advice" so it started pretty bad, I got her on msn and she asked me for advice on this 1 guy, I went AFC so badly on her.. I told her I liked her, that woulda instantly put me intofriend zone, however I escaped it, things went good, her interest in me just kept growin we made plans to see eachother again this summer, possibly my first sex... :p Id hope, anyways recently we had a few fights about how it wasnt gonna workout, etc.. (btw I still game girls that actually live here but the one I got the best connection withis this girl.. ) well it had a rollercoaster effect for her she was pretty downabout it.. thats when I messed up cause it did affect me too and I acted like a complete AFC kissing up to her after those "fights" I could sense her interest level fall.. now this kid shows up, 1 year younger than her and starts hitting on her, he acts pretty afc.. thing is this guy can actually be there with her so I cant compete with him.. also her interest levels on me are pretty low now so she might actually go for this afc.. and I cant compete vs him I was REALLY lookin up for this summer with her specially cause of the connection.. funny enough my interest for her is dropping too :down:

should I give it a break? should I ignore? should I try to fix it?

I wanna know if interest can grow back up in both her and me.. I really wanted the wild sex summer to happen :p I wanna know about you guys whove had experience being on and off with girls, also I NEED to learn to balance how Ishow attraction and how I tease her cause sometimes I gotooafc showing attraction or too ashole on the teasing
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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i'm no expert, but seems you still want her. so go for it, just use C+F and the usual stuff - stop the AFC. if you want the 'wild sex' then its atleast worth a try? you either get it or not.

atleast if you try to talk to her, you're more likely to get it.

i think some quote i read here, which relates to this is: you miss 100% of all chances you don't take

so take the chance and talk to her.
 
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I didn't read your post (too long) but I would say your only option is to go gay. Once your azz takes cack you'll never go back.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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