i dont feel comfortable posting about this publicly, but if i could talk to someone on MSN, and get their input from them there, i would really really appreciate it... i dont know how many of yall can help, but please help a fellow DJ in need. please leave your email for me here and ill talk to you on MSN.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
I feel like killing myself.... i am stuck, confused and dont know what to do.. help
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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MetalFortress
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Osiris7250
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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Dj Deity
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This might not be my forte. But I definetly know more about it then 99.9% of the people in here through experience.
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This might not be my forte. But I definetly know more about it then 99.9% of the people in here through experience.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Need-2-B-Pimpin
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[email protected] on msn, finnishbassist on yahoo or aim. If its depression I've dealt with a lot of it before but if it's something else then go ahead anyways, I'm always willing to help a brother in need.
Guitarfreakelite
Don Juan
[email protected]Originally posted by gregory
i dont feel comfortable posting about this publicly, but if i could talk to someone on MSN, and get their input from them there, i would really really appreciate it... i dont know how many of yall can help, but please help a fellow DJ in need. please leave your email for me here and ill talk to you on MSN.