i dont feel comfortable posting about this publicly, but if i could talk to someone on MSN, and get their input from them there, i would really really appreciate it... i dont know how many of yall can help, but please help a fellow DJ in need. please leave your email for me here and ill talk to you on MSN.
"Blank Mind on Dates? She's Dropping Hints You Keep Missing"
The plates get cleared and the silence lands like a brick. You can feel her waiting. Your brain offers up your commute, your job, the weather — topics that have ended more second dates than bad breath.
Here's what most guys never learn: women hand out free conversational material all night long. Tiny clues about what they actually want to discuss. Catch them and you never run out of things to say — because she's telling you what to say next.
Rule 4 of the "22 Rules" trains your ear to catch every single one.
I feel like killing myself.... i am stuck, confused and dont know what to do.. help
- Thread starter gregory
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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MetalFortress
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Re: I feel like killing myself.... i am stuck, confused and dont know what to do.. he
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Osiris7250
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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Dj Deity
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Microphone Fiend
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Craig Reeves
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This might not be my forte. But I definetly know more about it then 99.9% of the people in here through experience.
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This might not be my forte. But I definetly know more about it then 99.9% of the people in here through experience.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Need-2-B-Pimpin
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[email protected] on msn, finnishbassist on yahoo or aim. If its depression I've dealt with a lot of it before but if it's something else then go ahead anyways, I'm always willing to help a brother in need.
Guitarfreakelite
Don Juan
[email protected]Originally posted by gregory
i dont feel comfortable posting about this publicly, but if i could talk to someone on MSN, and get their input from them there, i would really really appreciate it... i dont know how many of yall can help, but please help a fellow DJ in need. please leave your email for me here and ill talk to you on MSN.