"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I feel like killing myself.... i am stuck, confused and dont know what to do.. help

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i dont feel comfortable posting about this publicly, but if i could talk to someone on MSN, and get their input from them there, i would really really appreciate it... i dont know how many of yall can help, but please help a fellow DJ in need. please leave your email for me here and ill talk to you on MSN.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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LikRetsam

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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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look to the light... send me an email, My forte is this type of thing

keep cool
 

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This might not be my forte. But I definetly know more about it then 99.9% of the people in here through experience.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Need-2-B-Pimpin

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[email protected] on msn, finnishbassist on yahoo or aim. If its depression I've dealt with a lot of it before but if it's something else then go ahead anyways, I'm always willing to help a brother in need.
 

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Originally posted by gregory
i dont feel comfortable posting about this publicly, but if i could talk to someone on MSN, and get their input from them there, i would really really appreciate it... i dont know how many of yall can help, but please help a fellow DJ in need. please leave your email for me here and ill talk to you on MSN.
[email protected]
 
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