“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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The Duke

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Seeking arrangement is an escort hook up site right?

Duuuude. There is nothing worthwhile there.
There is a good percentage of SA girls that are also on Bumble/Tinder/Match and you will never know unless you were on SA. Just something to think about.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I would bet my life savings on the fact the women I am dating are not on sugar daddy, aka pseudo-legitimised prostitution websites.

It might be all the really hot women that a lot of this site are obsessed with....only valuing a woman on her pvssy.

I can say with absolute confidence that I have never dated a prostitute. I have never,ever dated overtly sexual women and I never want to.
yeah but all women take something in exchange for sex. it doesnt have to be money, it could be your status, time, character, social circle, you, anyting
 

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yeah but all women take something in exchange for sex. it doesnt have to be money, it could be your status, time, character, social circle, you, anyting
What world do you live in where you think there is such a thing as getting something for nothing? Of course they do...just like you do to women.
 

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What world do you live in where you think there is such a thing as getting something for nothing? Of course they do...just like you do to women.
That's a good thing. It means your whole character is in the equation.

I don't view male female relations quite as binary as many. I don't want a woman purely for sex and I don't think they purely want what you can offer either.

Actually, a lot of folks want a staunch friends throughout life. Of course, you need to offer your partner something and sex is higher up the agenda for men, and status etc is for women. However, I want a bit more than something to stick my **** into. I'd just pay if that were the case.

The difference is, our sex is just a visual/ego thing. They see sex as the right thing at the right time with the right guy. It isn't a drive like we have so much. However, when the time is right, they enjoy it more in my opinion.

We need sex I think. Even so, I've happily gone weeks without it in a LTR without losing my mind. If you're busy or just sometimes you just don't feel like it. I do feel that since my sex drive dropped early 30s from "insane table humper" to a few notches below, girls want it more.

and even better thing is that women as far as I know are genetically made to find a partner that is better person than they are.

yeah men have more testosterone and need sex more often than women but that testosterone is also the thing that makes us reach our aims in life. so its good deal
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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