"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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The Duke

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Seeking arrangement is an escort hook up site right?

Duuuude. There is nothing worthwhile there.
There is a good percentage of SA girls that are also on Bumble/Tinder/Match and you will never know unless you were on SA. Just something to think about.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I would bet my life savings on the fact the women I am dating are not on sugar daddy, aka pseudo-legitimised prostitution websites.

It might be all the really hot women that a lot of this site are obsessed with....only valuing a woman on her pvssy.

I can say with absolute confidence that I have never dated a prostitute. I have never,ever dated overtly sexual women and I never want to.
yeah but all women take something in exchange for sex. it doesnt have to be money, it could be your status, time, character, social circle, you, anyting
 

marmel75

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yeah but all women take something in exchange for sex. it doesnt have to be money, it could be your status, time, character, social circle, you, anyting
What world do you live in where you think there is such a thing as getting something for nothing? Of course they do...just like you do to women.
 

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What world do you live in where you think there is such a thing as getting something for nothing? Of course they do...just like you do to women.
That's a good thing. It means your whole character is in the equation.

I don't view male female relations quite as binary as many. I don't want a woman purely for sex and I don't think they purely want what you can offer either.

Actually, a lot of folks want a staunch friends throughout life. Of course, you need to offer your partner something and sex is higher up the agenda for men, and status etc is for women. However, I want a bit more than something to stick my **** into. I'd just pay if that were the case.

The difference is, our sex is just a visual/ego thing. They see sex as the right thing at the right time with the right guy. It isn't a drive like we have so much. However, when the time is right, they enjoy it more in my opinion.

We need sex I think. Even so, I've happily gone weeks without it in a LTR without losing my mind. If you're busy or just sometimes you just don't feel like it. I do feel that since my sex drive dropped early 30s from "insane table humper" to a few notches below, girls want it more.

and even better thing is that women as far as I know are genetically made to find a partner that is better person than they are.

yeah men have more testosterone and need sex more often than women but that testosterone is also the thing that makes us reach our aims in life. so its good deal
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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