"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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The Duke

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Seeking arrangement is an escort hook up site right?

Duuuude. There is nothing worthwhile there.
There is a good percentage of SA girls that are also on Bumble/Tinder/Match and you will never know unless you were on SA. Just something to think about.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I would bet my life savings on the fact the women I am dating are not on sugar daddy, aka pseudo-legitimised prostitution websites.

It might be all the really hot women that a lot of this site are obsessed with....only valuing a woman on her pvssy.

I can say with absolute confidence that I have never dated a prostitute. I have never,ever dated overtly sexual women and I never want to.
yeah but all women take something in exchange for sex. it doesnt have to be money, it could be your status, time, character, social circle, you, anyting
 

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yeah but all women take something in exchange for sex. it doesnt have to be money, it could be your status, time, character, social circle, you, anyting
What world do you live in where you think there is such a thing as getting something for nothing? Of course they do...just like you do to women.
 

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What world do you live in where you think there is such a thing as getting something for nothing? Of course they do...just like you do to women.
That's a good thing. It means your whole character is in the equation.

I don't view male female relations quite as binary as many. I don't want a woman purely for sex and I don't think they purely want what you can offer either.

Actually, a lot of folks want a staunch friends throughout life. Of course, you need to offer your partner something and sex is higher up the agenda for men, and status etc is for women. However, I want a bit more than something to stick my **** into. I'd just pay if that were the case.

The difference is, our sex is just a visual/ego thing. They see sex as the right thing at the right time with the right guy. It isn't a drive like we have so much. However, when the time is right, they enjoy it more in my opinion.

We need sex I think. Even so, I've happily gone weeks without it in a LTR without losing my mind. If you're busy or just sometimes you just don't feel like it. I do feel that since my sex drive dropped early 30s from "insane table humper" to a few notches below, girls want it more.

and even better thing is that women as far as I know are genetically made to find a partner that is better person than they are.

yeah men have more testosterone and need sex more often than women but that testosterone is also the thing that makes us reach our aims in life. so its good deal
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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