"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Fruitbat said:
Seeking arrangement is an escort hook up site right?

Duuuude. There is nothing worthwhile there.
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There is a good percentage of SA girls that are also on Bumble/Tinder/Match and you will never know unless you were on SA. Just something to think about.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Fruitbat said:
I would bet my life savings on the fact the women I am dating are not on sugar daddy, aka pseudo-legitimised prostitution websites.

It might be all the really hot women that a lot of this site are obsessed with....only valuing a woman on her pvssy.

I can say with absolute confidence that I have never dated a prostitute. I have never,ever dated overtly sexual women and I never want to.
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yeah but all women take something in exchange for sex. it doesnt have to be money, it could be your status, time, character, social circle, you, anyting
 
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sosousage said:
yeah but all women take something in exchange for sex. it doesnt have to be money, it could be your status, time, character, social circle, you, anyting
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What world do you live in where you think there is such a thing as getting something for nothing? Of course they do...just like you do to women.
 
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marmel75 said:
What world do you live in where you think there is such a thing as getting something for nothing? Of course they do...just like you do to women.
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Fruitbat said:
That's a good thing. It means your whole character is in the equation.

I don't view male female relations quite as binary as many. I don't want a woman purely for sex and I don't think they purely want what you can offer either.

Actually, a lot of folks want a staunch friends throughout life. Of course, you need to offer your partner something and sex is higher up the agenda for men, and status etc is for women. However, I want a bit more than something to stick my **** into. I'd just pay if that were the case.

The difference is, our sex is just a visual/ego thing. They see sex as the right thing at the right time with the right guy. It isn't a drive like we have so much. However, when the time is right, they enjoy it more in my opinion.

We need sex I think. Even so, I've happily gone weeks without it in a LTR without losing my mind. If you're busy or just sometimes you just don't feel like it. I do feel that since my sex drive dropped early 30s from "insane table humper" to a few notches below, girls want it more.
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and even better thing is that women as far as I know are genetically made to find a partner that is better person than they are.

yeah men have more testosterone and need sex more often than women but that testosterone is also the thing that makes us reach our aims in life. so its good deal
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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