BongDuy
Master Don Juan
How would you react to this? Ive had this thrown to my face and i just nervously said " uhh... alright" because im still new 
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
"I dont give my Number to strangers"
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
pjtheman
Don Juan
she's not interested my friend, ignore her and find someone who actualy is
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She's just not that into you.
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give a response she wouldn't expect, rather than an awkward "alright" or "whatever you say" respond with "that's alright I'll get you soon," it's unexpected and completely different from what a typical response would be. furthermore it'll get her to at least giggle or smile, and put her out of what is likely an equally strange moment for her.
hell you could even respond like you would on a direct "can i kiss you" and say "i didn't say i actually wanted it." Of course in both cases be sure to say it in a playful way, a dead monotone response is no good here.
hell you could even respond like you would on a direct "can i kiss you" and say "i didn't say i actually wanted it." Of course in both cases be sure to say it in a playful way, a dead monotone response is no good here.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
daygameguy
Master Don Juan
Don't let it break your state.
Push it 20% further and be ready to eject.
"It was a pleasure meeting you."
Push it 20% further and be ready to eject.
"It was a pleasure meeting you."
BongDuy
Master Don Juan
daygameguy said:
How would i push it 20% further?
Hughman
Senior Don Juan
'Who said I'm a stranger?'
To be honest though, there isn't much you can do about this. It is most likely a rejection. Look at her non-verbal ques from her mouth and eyes.
To be honest though, there isn't much you can do about this. It is most likely a rejection. Look at her non-verbal ques from her mouth and eyes.