BongDuy
Master Don Juan
How would you react to this? Ive had this thrown to my face and i just nervously said " uhh... alright" because im still new 
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
"I dont give my Number to strangers"
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
pjtheman
Don Juan
she's not interested my friend, ignore her and find someone who actualy is
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She's just not that into you.
Lumberyard
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give a response she wouldn't expect, rather than an awkward "alright" or "whatever you say" respond with "that's alright I'll get you soon," it's unexpected and completely different from what a typical response would be. furthermore it'll get her to at least giggle or smile, and put her out of what is likely an equally strange moment for her.
hell you could even respond like you would on a direct "can i kiss you" and say "i didn't say i actually wanted it." Of course in both cases be sure to say it in a playful way, a dead monotone response is no good here.
hell you could even respond like you would on a direct "can i kiss you" and say "i didn't say i actually wanted it." Of course in both cases be sure to say it in a playful way, a dead monotone response is no good here.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
daygameguy
Master Don Juan
Don't let it break your state.
Push it 20% further and be ready to eject.
"It was a pleasure meeting you."
Push it 20% further and be ready to eject.
"It was a pleasure meeting you."
BongDuy
Master Don Juan
daygameguy said:
How would i push it 20% further?
Hughman
Senior Don Juan
'Who said I'm a stranger?'
To be honest though, there isn't much you can do about this. It is most likely a rejection. Look at her non-verbal ques from her mouth and eyes.
To be honest though, there isn't much you can do about this. It is most likely a rejection. Look at her non-verbal ques from her mouth and eyes.