BongDuy
Master Don Juan
How would you react to this? Ive had this thrown to my face and i just nervously said " uhh... alright" because im still new 
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
"I dont give my Number to strangers"
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
pjtheman
Don Juan
she's not interested my friend, ignore her and find someone who actualy is
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She's just not that into you.
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give a response she wouldn't expect, rather than an awkward "alright" or "whatever you say" respond with "that's alright I'll get you soon," it's unexpected and completely different from what a typical response would be. furthermore it'll get her to at least giggle or smile, and put her out of what is likely an equally strange moment for her.
hell you could even respond like you would on a direct "can i kiss you" and say "i didn't say i actually wanted it." Of course in both cases be sure to say it in a playful way, a dead monotone response is no good here.
hell you could even respond like you would on a direct "can i kiss you" and say "i didn't say i actually wanted it." Of course in both cases be sure to say it in a playful way, a dead monotone response is no good here.
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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
daygameguy
Master Don Juan
Don't let it break your state.
Push it 20% further and be ready to eject.
"It was a pleasure meeting you."
Push it 20% further and be ready to eject.
"It was a pleasure meeting you."
BongDuy
Master Don Juan
daygameguy said:
How would i push it 20% further?
Hughman
Senior Don Juan
'Who said I'm a stranger?'
To be honest though, there isn't much you can do about this. It is most likely a rejection. Look at her non-verbal ques from her mouth and eyes.
To be honest though, there isn't much you can do about this. It is most likely a rejection. Look at her non-verbal ques from her mouth and eyes.