BongDuy
Master Don Juan
How would you react to this? Ive had this thrown to my face and i just nervously said " uhh... alright" because im still new 
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
"I dont give my Number to strangers"
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
pjtheman
Don Juan
she's not interested my friend, ignore her and find someone who actualy is
nismo-4
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She's just not that into you.
Lumberyard
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give a response she wouldn't expect, rather than an awkward "alright" or "whatever you say" respond with "that's alright I'll get you soon," it's unexpected and completely different from what a typical response would be. furthermore it'll get her to at least giggle or smile, and put her out of what is likely an equally strange moment for her.
hell you could even respond like you would on a direct "can i kiss you" and say "i didn't say i actually wanted it." Of course in both cases be sure to say it in a playful way, a dead monotone response is no good here.
hell you could even respond like you would on a direct "can i kiss you" and say "i didn't say i actually wanted it." Of course in both cases be sure to say it in a playful way, a dead monotone response is no good here.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
daygameguy
Master Don Juan
Don't let it break your state.
Push it 20% further and be ready to eject.
"It was a pleasure meeting you."
Push it 20% further and be ready to eject.
"It was a pleasure meeting you."
BongDuy
Master Don Juan
daygameguy said:
How would i push it 20% further?
Hughman
Senior Don Juan
'Who said I'm a stranger?'
To be honest though, there isn't much you can do about this. It is most likely a rejection. Look at her non-verbal ques from her mouth and eyes.
To be honest though, there isn't much you can do about this. It is most likely a rejection. Look at her non-verbal ques from her mouth and eyes.