trajicdynasty
Don Juan
I need to know how to kiss so that the first time i kiss a girl it will seem like its not my first kiss.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
i am a senior in highschool and never kissed a girl
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
bootlegger
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then let her lead.
kissing and sex are the easiest things to do.
You are stressing for no reason.
You are pre-programmed to be a mating machine.
So let the testosterone take over.
DON'T THINK... JUST GO WITH IT.
kissing and sex are the easiest things to do.
You are stressing for no reason.
You are pre-programmed to be a mating machine.
So let the testosterone take over.
DON'T THINK... JUST GO WITH IT.
Evil-Rom
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If it's your first kiss and she's experienced, she'll know.
You won't be able to "fake it", practice makes perfect.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Nah Evil-Rom, i think this is something a hell of a lot of guys go through, i been through it as well. All my friends thought i had cos i had a bit of a rep. Dont sweat it, its easy, just follow her. (she said i was amazing, until i nearly swallowed her tongue 
).
Even better, find a girl that has never kissed before (quite rare) and shell be so nervous she wont notice anything.
Try to do it sober.
Good luck and no worrries.
).Even better, find a girl that has never kissed before (quite rare) and shell be so nervous she wont notice anything.
Try to do it sober.
Good luck and no worrries.
InsidiousNstinct
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That's all you should NEED to know. The rest shall come...
There's no way to do a bad kiss. Unless you bite her really hard or make a really stupid face.
Just don't french her on the first kiss. Touch her lips with your lips. Suck just a bit. (that's important though, last month I was trying to kiss a girl, she wasn't expecting it and while sucking there's was a funny sound... like mwah or something) But it was ok...
So look at her reaction for the "light" kiss and then go ahead and lick her all over.
Just don't french her on the first kiss. Touch her lips with your lips. Suck just a bit. (that's important though, last month I was trying to kiss a girl, she wasn't expecting it and while sucking there's was a funny sound... like mwah or something) But it was ok...
So look at her reaction for the "light" kiss and then go ahead and lick her all over.
Few things for you to remember:
-Don't use your teeth. That's too advanced for now.
-Do not drool. Moist your lips a little, but for start it's better not to make it too wet.
-Move your hands on her if you like. Don't go for ass, boobs or genitals just yet!
-At first be gentle as possible and do not stick your tongue in her mouth.
-Kiss with your lips and keep it on her lips. At first.
-Remember to have a good breath because bad breath is an ultimate turnoff.
-Keep your eyes mostly shut. Most people do not like it if the other person has his/her eyes open.
-Try to get her as comfortable as possible.
-Just relax and keep it casual and don't push it and you'll do fine!
In case you have an opportunity for getting more intimate and passionate:
-When you two have kissed already a good while and she starts to breath heavy etc. it's time to go forward to more sexual kissing
-Take her closer to you so you touch her with your body, if you have a boner it's all good.
-You can increase the amount of moisture.
-Kissing with both of you eyes open can make it more intimate
-Start rubbing her hips and around her boobs. Run your hands in her hair.
-Speed up.
-Compliment her kissing if you think she is good. Compliment what you really like what she does.
-Start kissing all around her neck: Gently, fast, slow, in any way, you can also lick her neck. Watch her reactions.
-Lick and nibble her earlobe. One of my favourite is to lick her ear.
I feels amazing IMO while all the sound effects Make sure your ears are clean btw.
-Use your tongue. Put it between her lips and start licking them
when she opens her mouth lick her tongue, feel her mouth, keep your tongue mostly relaxed.
-If you keep caressing her and keeping up kissing passionately, she'll be wet in no time!
Remember to always be unpredictable and change what you do from time to time!
-Kiss her with soft lips, harder lips, fast, slow, up, down, side to side, lick her lips, keep it fun and creative.
Again, Keep it FUN!
If there's those funny voices that sometimes come, just look at her and laugh or just ignore them.
-Don't use your teeth. That's too advanced for now.
-Do not drool. Moist your lips a little, but for start it's better not to make it too wet.
-Move your hands on her if you like. Don't go for ass, boobs or genitals just yet!
-At first be gentle as possible and do not stick your tongue in her mouth.
-Kiss with your lips and keep it on her lips. At first.
-Remember to have a good breath because bad breath is an ultimate turnoff.
-Keep your eyes mostly shut. Most people do not like it if the other person has his/her eyes open.
-Try to get her as comfortable as possible.
-Just relax and keep it casual and don't push it and you'll do fine!
In case you have an opportunity for getting more intimate and passionate:
-When you two have kissed already a good while and she starts to breath heavy etc. it's time to go forward to more sexual kissing
-Take her closer to you so you touch her with your body, if you have a boner it's all good.
-You can increase the amount of moisture.
-Kissing with both of you eyes open can make it more intimate
-Start rubbing her hips and around her boobs. Run your hands in her hair.
-Speed up.
-Compliment her kissing if you think she is good. Compliment what you really like what she does.
-Start kissing all around her neck: Gently, fast, slow, in any way, you can also lick her neck. Watch her reactions.
-Lick and nibble her earlobe. One of my favourite is to lick her ear.
I feels amazing IMO while all the sound effects
Make sure your ears are clean btw.-Use your tongue. Put it between her lips and start licking them
when she opens her mouth lick her tongue, feel her mouth, keep your tongue mostly relaxed.
-If you keep caressing her and keeping up kissing passionately, she'll be wet in no time!
Remember to always be unpredictable and change what you do from time to time!
-Kiss her with soft lips, harder lips, fast, slow, up, down, side to side, lick her lips, keep it fun and creative.
Again, Keep it FUN!
If there's those funny voices that sometimes come, just look at her and laugh or just ignore them.
DiSt0rTi0n_07
Don Juan
Hot Ice knows what he's talkin about!
Practice makes perfect. Don't forget that.
Practice makes perfect. Don't forget that.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
*Bows* D*mn good stuff Ice. You may become something one day.Originally posted by Hot Ice
Few things for you to remember:
-Don't use your teeth. That's too advanced for now.
-Do not drool. Moist your lips a little, but for start it's better not to make it too wet.
-Move your hands on her if you like. Don't go for ass, boobs or genitals just yet!
-At first be gentle as possible and do not stick your tongue in her mouth.
-Kiss with your lips and keep it on her lips. At first.
-Remember to have a good breath because bad breath is an ultimate turnoff.
-Keep your eyes mostly shut. Most people do not like it if the other person has his/her eyes open.
-Try to get her as comfortable as possible.
-Just relax and keep it casual and don't push it and you'll do fine!
In case you have an opportunity for getting more intimate and passionate:
-When you two have kissed already a good while and she starts to breath heavy etc. it's time to go forward to more sexual kissing
-Take her closer to you so you touch her with your body, if you have a boner it's all good.
-You can increase the amount of moisture.
-Kissing with both of you eyes open can make it more intimate
-Start rubbing her hips and around her boobs. Run your hands in her hair.
-Speed up.
-Compliment her kissing if you think she is good. Compliment what you really like what she does.
-Start kissing all around her neck: Gently, fast, slow, in any way, you can also lick her neck. Watch her reactions.
-Lick and nibble her earlobe. One of my favourite is to lick her ear.
I feels amazing IMO while all the sound effects
-Use your tongue. Put it between her lips and start licking them
when she opens her mouth lick her tongue, feel her mouth, keep your tongue mostly relaxed.
-If you keep caressing her and keeping up kissing passionately, she'll be wet in no time!
Remember to always be unpredictable and change what you do from time to time!
-Kiss her with soft lips, harder lips, fast, slow, up, down, side to side, lick her lips, keep it fun and creative.
Again, Keep it FUN!
If there's those funny voices that sometimes come, just look at her and laugh or just ignore them.
trajicdynasty
Don Juan
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Helter Skelter
Master Don Juan
Delete???
I was thinking Bible.
I was thinking Bible.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
lol ice cold, u bring me back to sophmore year high school, that was when I got my first kiss. I remember crystal clear. Here I was going for my first kiss, I just wanted it to be a nice, normal first kiss, you know, on the lips for a couple seconds and ur done. Well, apparently thats not what she wanted and my first kiss ended up turning into a full blown makeout session. After a second or two she iniated tounge and it was all good from there.