"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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i am a senior in highschool and never kissed a girl

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I need to know how to kiss so that the first time i kiss a girl it will seem like its not my first kiss.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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then let her lead.

kissing and sex are the easiest things to do.

You are stressing for no reason.


You are pre-programmed to be a mating machine.

So let the testosterone take over.

DON'T THINK... JUST GO WITH IT.
 

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Just move in slow, if its a first kiss take about 5 seconds and then pull away. Oh yeah remember to breath through your nose, its not cool to pass out while kissing :)

You'll do fine.

-Grey Fox
 

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High School age = High School Forum.
 

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Originally posted by trajicdynasty
I need to know how to kiss so that the first time i kiss a girl it will seem like its not my first kiss.
If it's your first kiss and she's experienced, she'll know.

You won't be able to "fake it", practice makes perfect.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Nah Evil-Rom, i think this is something a hell of a lot of guys go through, i been through it as well. All my friends thought i had cos i had a bit of a rep. Dont sweat it, its easy, just follow her. (she said i was amazing, until i nearly swallowed her tongue :D).

Even better, find a girl that has never kissed before (quite rare) and shell be so nervous she wont notice anything.

Try to do it sober.

Good luck and no worrries.
 

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You are pre-programmed to be a mating machine.

That's all you should NEED to know. The rest shall come...
 

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There's no way to do a bad kiss. Unless you bite her really hard or make a really stupid face. :)

Just don't french her on the first kiss. Touch her lips with your lips. Suck just a bit. (that's important though, last month I was trying to kiss a girl, she wasn't expecting it and while sucking there's was a funny sound... like mwah or something) But it was ok...

So look at her reaction for the "light" kiss and then go ahead and lick her all over. ;)
 

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Few things for you to remember:

-Don't use your teeth. That's too advanced for now.
-Do not drool. Moist your lips a little, but for start it's better not to make it too wet.
-Move your hands on her if you like. Don't go for ass, boobs or genitals just yet!
-At first be gentle as possible and do not stick your tongue in her mouth.
-Kiss with your lips and keep it on her lips. At first.
-Remember to have a good breath because bad breath is an ultimate turnoff.
-Keep your eyes mostly shut. Most people do not like it if the other person has his/her eyes open.
-Try to get her as comfortable as possible.
-Just relax and keep it casual and don't push it and you'll do fine!

In case you have an opportunity for getting more intimate and passionate:

-When you two have kissed already a good while and she starts to breath heavy etc. it's time to go forward to more sexual kissing
-Take her closer to you so you touch her with your body, if you have a boner it's all good.
-You can increase the amount of moisture.
-Kissing with both of you eyes open can make it more intimate
-Start rubbing her hips and around her boobs. Run your hands in her hair.
-Speed up.
-Compliment her kissing if you think she is good. Compliment what you really like what she does.
-Start kissing all around her neck: Gently, fast, slow, in any way, you can also lick her neck. Watch her reactions.
-Lick and nibble her earlobe. One of my favourite is to lick her ear.
I feels amazing IMO while all the sound effects :D Make sure your ears are clean btw.
-Use your tongue. Put it between her lips and start licking them
when she opens her mouth lick her tongue, feel her mouth, keep your tongue mostly relaxed.
-If you keep caressing her and keeping up kissing passionately, she'll be wet in no time!

Remember to always be unpredictable and change what you do from time to time!

-Kiss her with soft lips, harder lips, fast, slow, up, down, side to side, lick her lips, keep it fun and creative.
Again, Keep it FUN!
If there's those funny voices that sometimes come, just look at her and laugh or just ignore them.
 

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Hot Ice knows what he's talkin about!

Practice makes perfect. Don't forget that. :D
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Originally posted by Hot Ice
Few things for you to remember:

-Don't use your teeth. That's too advanced for now.
-Do not drool. Moist your lips a little, but for start it's better not to make it too wet.
-Move your hands on her if you like. Don't go for ass, boobs or genitals just yet!
-At first be gentle as possible and do not stick your tongue in her mouth.
-Kiss with your lips and keep it on her lips. At first.
-Remember to have a good breath because bad breath is an ultimate turnoff.
-Keep your eyes mostly shut. Most people do not like it if the other person has his/her eyes open.
-Try to get her as comfortable as possible.
-Just relax and keep it casual and don't push it and you'll do fine!

In case you have an opportunity for getting more intimate and passionate:

-When you two have kissed already a good while and she starts to breath heavy etc. it's time to go forward to more sexual kissing
-Take her closer to you so you touch her with your body, if you have a boner it's all good.
-You can increase the amount of moisture.
-Kissing with both of you eyes open can make it more intimate
-Start rubbing her hips and around her boobs. Run your hands in her hair.
-Speed up.
-Compliment her kissing if you think she is good. Compliment what you really like what she does.
-Start kissing all around her neck: Gently, fast, slow, in any way, you can also lick her neck. Watch her reactions.
-Lick and nibble her earlobe. One of my favourite is to lick her ear.
I feels amazing IMO while all the sound effects :D Make sure your ears are clean btw.
-Use your tongue. Put it between her lips and start licking them
when she opens her mouth lick her tongue, feel her mouth, keep your tongue mostly relaxed.
-If you keep caressing her and keeping up kissing passionately, she'll be wet in no time!

Remember to always be unpredictable and change what you do from time to time!

-Kiss her with soft lips, harder lips, fast, slow, up, down, side to side, lick her lips, keep it fun and creative.
Again, Keep it FUN!
If there's those funny voices that sometimes come, just look at her and laugh or just ignore them.
*Bows* D*mn good stuff Ice. You may become something one day.
 

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I cant believe someone just wrote a whole article on how to kiss.... Its just a kiss....
 

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Well the creator requested that I delete this, but I dunno, seams to be good advice here to me. If you still want it deleted pm me.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Originally posted by Vincent
Well the creator requested that I delete this, but I dunno, seams to be good advice here to me. If you still want it deleted pm me.
what - was he ashamed that he asked this question :D ?!

Hell, for me, I had my first when I was 13 (7th grade); though since, I've only had one [last year].
 

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lol ice cold, u bring me back to sophmore year high school, that was when I got my first kiss. I remember crystal clear. Here I was going for my first kiss, I just wanted it to be a nice, normal first kiss, you know, on the lips for a couple seconds and ur done. Well, apparently thats not what she wanted and my first kiss ended up turning into a full blown makeout session. After a second or two she iniated tounge and it was all good from there. :D
 
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