trajicdynasty
Don Juan
I need to know how to kiss so that the first time i kiss a girl it will seem like its not my first kiss.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
If it's your first kiss and she's experienced, she'll know.Originally posted by trajicdynasty
I need to know how to kiss so that the first time i kiss a girl it will seem like its not my first kiss.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
You are pre-programmed to be a mating machine.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
*Bows* D*mn good stuff Ice. You may become something one day.Originally posted by Hot Ice
Few things for you to remember:
-Don't use your teeth. That's too advanced for now.
-Do not drool. Moist your lips a little, but for start it's better not to make it too wet.
-Move your hands on her if you like. Don't go for ass, boobs or genitals just yet!
-At first be gentle as possible and do not stick your tongue in her mouth.
-Kiss with your lips and keep it on her lips. At first.
-Remember to have a good breath because bad breath is an ultimate turnoff.
-Keep your eyes mostly shut. Most people do not like it if the other person has his/her eyes open.
-Try to get her as comfortable as possible.
-Just relax and keep it casual and don't push it and you'll do fine!
In case you have an opportunity for getting more intimate and passionate:
-When you two have kissed already a good while and she starts to breath heavy etc. it's time to go forward to more sexual kissing
-Take her closer to you so you touch her with your body, if you have a boner it's all good.
-You can increase the amount of moisture.
-Kissing with both of you eyes open can make it more intimate
-Start rubbing her hips and around her boobs. Run your hands in her hair.
-Speed up.
-Compliment her kissing if you think she is good. Compliment what you really like what she does.
-Start kissing all around her neck: Gently, fast, slow, in any way, you can also lick her neck. Watch her reactions.
-Lick and nibble her earlobe. One of my favourite is to lick her ear.
I feels amazing IMO while all the sound effectsMake sure your ears are clean btw.
-Use your tongue. Put it between her lips and start licking them
when she opens her mouth lick her tongue, feel her mouth, keep your tongue mostly relaxed.
-If you keep caressing her and keeping up kissing passionately, she'll be wet in no time!
Remember to always be unpredictable and change what you do from time to time!
-Kiss her with soft lips, harder lips, fast, slow, up, down, side to side, lick her lips, keep it fun and creative.
Again, Keep it FUN!
If there's those funny voices that sometimes come, just look at her and laugh or just ignore them.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
what - was he ashamed that he asked this questionOriginally posted by Vincent
Well the creator requested that I delete this, but I dunno, seams to be good advice here to me. If you still want it deleted pm me.