HeartlessBtch
Don Juan
not you .... your inputs are always mature
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
I am a Jackass
- Thread starter DrDope
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
animal crackers
Senior Don Juan
Apologize ABOUT GETTING UPSET. You said you meant saying some of the things you said.
Don't give chocolate or flowers. It is pusy and lame.
Don't give chocolate or flowers. It is pusy and lame.
DJ_in_making
Master Don Juan
Re: troll.
wow, you get over-defensive of women.
HeartlessBtch
Don Juan
It's not being defensive...it's telling the truth and being a mature man. If you believe in wife beating that's your choice. I'll rejoice seeing yall getting buttf*cked in jail...PZ aqguing over the internet is like arguing with idiots....pointless
DJ_in_making
Master Don Juan
you would like seeing a guy getting f*cked up the butt wouldn't you?
p.s. I think guys who hit girls are sissies:cheer:
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
HeartlessBtch
Don Juan
:crackup: Kids.....
do i gotta teach you all mature people something everyday?
dictionary.com
sissy = 1. A boy or man regarded as effeminate
2. A person regarded as timid or cowardly
how is hitting a woman sissy? now NOT hitting a woman when you REALLY wanna is sissy
dictionary.com
sissy = 1. A boy or man regarded as effeminate
2. A person regarded as timid or cowardly
how is hitting a woman sissy? now NOT hitting a woman when you REALLY wanna is sissy
Feeling the need to hit a women only means that you, as a person, are mentally immature. You are unable to mentally win the situation and therefore you have to resort to physical methods in getting your point across. It also means that you are unable to understand that there are certain situations where there is no point in arguing further. You continue to get involved in the argument and continue to get more annoyed and irritated, but only because you "like" the anger and you "want" her to give you a reason to hit her. Walking away is not something you would enjoy doing because you want to prove your point. You are not timid, but you are indeed a coward because you are extremely afraid of letting the woman "win" the argument, when in actual fact there is nothing to win really.
If you ever feel like you need to hit a woman, you are a coward.
If you ever feel like you need to hit a woman, you are a coward.
I'm Joe Dirt
Master Don Juan
Going back to the original post without wasting bandwidth -- what line of work is she in????
TillTheEndOfTime
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Apologizing with some women these days does nothing but give them more ammo in future arguments.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
SELF-MASTERY
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Stop being a lil ***** and swallow your proud faq. She'll still be mad that you hate the kind of ppl in her profession (you might be an idiot for generalizing a complete group of ppl) She might accept it or not, it make take time. IF SHE means alot to YOU do it, fuk all the alpha dj follower ****.
Sometimes I want to smack a ho, but never do. I have control, fear consequences, the violated look in her eyes, I feel guilty about everything anyway.....But I understand why less in control men do it, I understand that a smack might even balance your emotions. Sometimes a smack is a measure of revenge, how dare you do that to me, smack--- instant relief. IF IT Aint yo mamma, sister or friend getting beat who care. Stop saving hos. If he shoots u I'll pull out my lil .32 and pop him in the head. Defense of others..
Sometimes I want to smack a ho, but never do. I have control, fear consequences, the violated look in her eyes, I feel guilty about everything anyway.....But I understand why less in control men do it, I understand that a smack might even balance your emotions. Sometimes a smack is a measure of revenge, how dare you do that to me, smack--- instant relief. IF IT Aint yo mamma, sister or friend getting beat who care. Stop saving hos. If he shoots u I'll pull out my lil .32 and pop him in the head. Defense of others..
Mortukai
Don Juan
Hey, anyone wanna see a double standard?
Anyways...
To the topic poster: Ignore HeartlessBtch and every other pvssy here. Girls don't know sh!t about how you should treat them, and anyone who agrees with girls about how to treat them clearly also doesn't know sh!t.
Read this article. Then decide for yourself if you should apologize.
But as has been mentioned, never apologize for anything that is true and/or about the way you are. If you believe something (like in your case, that people in her line of work are idiots), then don't apologize for that. If you decide to apologize, then do so only for losing your temper and yelling at her, then have wild make-up sex.
Think of it like this: you only apologize for your actual mistakes. Your opinions are not mistakes. You disagreeing with her is not a mistake. Losing your temper and yelling at her is a mistake, because a real man keeps his cool. James Bond never gets loses his temper.
Now let's see the inverse of that:
You can only ever get away with wishing rape on a man. Wishing rape on a woman is somehow worse apparently.
Anyways...
To the topic poster: Ignore HeartlessBtch and every other pvssy here. Girls don't know sh!t about how you should treat them, and anyone who agrees with girls about how to treat them clearly also doesn't know sh!t.
Read this article. Then decide for yourself if you should apologize.
But as has been mentioned, never apologize for anything that is true and/or about the way you are. If you believe something (like in your case, that people in her line of work are idiots), then don't apologize for that. If you decide to apologize, then do so only for losing your temper and yelling at her, then have wild make-up sex.
Think of it like this: you only apologize for your actual mistakes. Your opinions are not mistakes. You disagreeing with her is not a mistake. Losing your temper and yelling at her is a mistake, because a real man keeps his cool. James Bond never gets loses his temper.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.