HeartlessBtch
Don Juan
not you .... your inputs are always mature
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
And men like you who would literally hit a woman should get shot.Originally posted by Ebach
if she was acting like heartless*****, i'd slap her outta of it..literally
I'f i'm around, probably... and not because its HeartlessBtch, but because its a WOMAN, I'm done arguing with you, i dont have time for pointless forum space such as yourself.Originally posted by Ebach
are you saying you'll shoot me if i slap heartless*****?
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
wow, you get over-defensive of women.Originally posted by ~ªêQµïTª$~
I'f i'm around, probably... and not because its HeartlessBtch, but because its a WOMAN, I'm done arguing with you, i dont have time for pointless forum space such as yourself.
Laterz...
you would like seeing a guy getting f*cked up the butt wouldn't you?Originally posted by HeartlessBtch
It's not being defensive...it's telling the truth and being a mature man. If you believe in wife beating that's your choice. I'll rejoice seeing yall getting buttf*cked in jail...PZ aqguing over the internet is like arguing with idiots....pointless
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
:crackup: Kids.....Originally posted by Ebach
what if it's a big fat woman trying to choke you? still don't hit her? speaking of fat women... i think heartless ***** is kind of on the fat side
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Originally posted by DrDope
As far as details, I made a remark that could easily have been construed that I don't like the kind of people that work in her line of business. And it's true...I don't, her excepted.
But I never should have let her know that. That is why I am in the wrong. I spoke my mind but the only outcome was rudeness...not forthrightness or anything admirable.
So before you folks say "Screw her, you were just speaking your mind!" remember that just speaking your mind can also make you an a-hole.
I'm worried to bring it up again. I'd kind of like to just show a nice gesture and move on. I don't think she wants to talk about it anymore but she is still pissed.
hmm... So if you had to walk past a boyfriend beating the sh!t out of his girlfriend, you telling me you wont do anything about it?Originally posted by SELF-MASTERY
Stop being a lil ***** and swallow your proud faq. She'll still be mad that you hate the kind of ppl in her profession (you might be an idiot for generalizing a complete group of ppl) She might accept it or not, it make take time. IF SHE means alot to YOU do it, fuk all the alpha dj follower ****.
Sometimes I want to smack a ho, but never do. I have control, fear consequences, the violated look in her eyes, I feel guilty about everything anyway.....But I understand why less in control men do it, I understand that a smack might even balance your emotions. Sometimes a smack is a measure of revenge, how dare you do that to me, smack--- instant relief. IF IT Aint yo mamma, sister or friend getting beat who care. Stop saving hos. If he shoots u I'll pull out my lil .32 and pop him in the head. Defense of others..
Now let's see the inverse of that:If you [men] believe in wife beating that's your choice. I'll rejoice seeing yall getting buttf*cked in jail.
You can only ever get away with wishing rape on a man. Wishing rape on a woman is somehow worse apparently.If you [women] believe in husband beating that's your choice. I'll rejoice seeing yall getting raped in jail.
Women deserve no special treatment over men. They clamor for equality but want none of the down sides of it.Originally posted by ~ªêQµïTª$~
I'f i'm around, probably... and not because its HeartlessBtch, but because its a WOMAN, I'm done arguing with you, i dont have time for pointless forum space such as yourself.
Laterz...
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.