HeartlessBtch
Don Juan
not you .... your inputs are always mature
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
And men like you who would literally hit a woman should get shot.Originally posted by Ebach
if she was acting like heartless*****, i'd slap her outta of it..literally
I'f i'm around, probably... and not because its HeartlessBtch, but because its a WOMAN, I'm done arguing with you, i dont have time for pointless forum space such as yourself.Originally posted by Ebach
are you saying you'll shoot me if i slap heartless*****?
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
wow, you get over-defensive of women.Originally posted by ~ªêQµïTª$~
I'f i'm around, probably... and not because its HeartlessBtch, but because its a WOMAN, I'm done arguing with you, i dont have time for pointless forum space such as yourself.
Laterz...
you would like seeing a guy getting f*cked up the butt wouldn't you?Originally posted by HeartlessBtch
It's not being defensive...it's telling the truth and being a mature man. If you believe in wife beating that's your choice. I'll rejoice seeing yall getting buttf*cked in jail...PZ aqguing over the internet is like arguing with idiots....pointless
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
:crackup: Kids.....Originally posted by Ebach
what if it's a big fat woman trying to choke you? still don't hit her? speaking of fat women... i think heartless ***** is kind of on the fat side
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Originally posted by DrDope
As far as details, I made a remark that could easily have been construed that I don't like the kind of people that work in her line of business. And it's true...I don't, her excepted.
But I never should have let her know that. That is why I am in the wrong. I spoke my mind but the only outcome was rudeness...not forthrightness or anything admirable.
So before you folks say "Screw her, you were just speaking your mind!" remember that just speaking your mind can also make you an a-hole.
I'm worried to bring it up again. I'd kind of like to just show a nice gesture and move on. I don't think she wants to talk about it anymore but she is still pissed.
hmm... So if you had to walk past a boyfriend beating the sh!t out of his girlfriend, you telling me you wont do anything about it?Originally posted by SELF-MASTERY
Stop being a lil ***** and swallow your proud faq. She'll still be mad that you hate the kind of ppl in her profession (you might be an idiot for generalizing a complete group of ppl) She might accept it or not, it make take time. IF SHE means alot to YOU do it, fuk all the alpha dj follower ****.
Sometimes I want to smack a ho, but never do. I have control, fear consequences, the violated look in her eyes, I feel guilty about everything anyway.....But I understand why less in control men do it, I understand that a smack might even balance your emotions. Sometimes a smack is a measure of revenge, how dare you do that to me, smack--- instant relief. IF IT Aint yo mamma, sister or friend getting beat who care. Stop saving hos. If he shoots u I'll pull out my lil .32 and pop him in the head. Defense of others..
Now let's see the inverse of that:If you [men] believe in wife beating that's your choice. I'll rejoice seeing yall getting buttf*cked in jail.
You can only ever get away with wishing rape on a man. Wishing rape on a woman is somehow worse apparently.If you [women] believe in husband beating that's your choice. I'll rejoice seeing yall getting raped in jail.
Women deserve no special treatment over men. They clamor for equality but want none of the down sides of it.Originally posted by ~ªêQµïTª$~
I'f i'm around, probably... and not because its HeartlessBtch, but because its a WOMAN, I'm done arguing with you, i dont have time for pointless forum space such as yourself.
Laterz...
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.