marmel75
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In fact you will find that MORE women will want to bang you when they know you are taken...its like they want what they can't have...like its dirty or forbidden or taboo...When you're in a marriage or LTR, you will always feel like women are flirting and wanting to bang you. And maybe some are. But it's a matter of perception, i.e., you cannot or should not act on it, so it feels like you're on a diet and someone's laying out all kinds of delicious junk food in front of you.
The reality is, if you get a divorce, you're not going to just fall into bed with these women. You'll still have to work hard, have tight game, have a life mission, etc.
I wouldn't make the decision on those terms. When I was married I felt the same, but there were heavier forces at play than just wanting to spin plates. Questions of freedom, peace of mind, and just peace in general.
Your age is certainly a factor as well. Why did you get married at 22?
It can suck at times and can definitely cause you to stray if you let it consume you...