"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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How would you talk about your GF/wife with other Sets when you come closer?

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At the end of this month, my GF will be outside of country for 2 weeks, we still love each other, and she accepts I am still gaming for just fun.

But I always have the feeling I have to hide the fact that I have a kid with her, how to communicate frame that it is all about having fun and taking it very easy and in the meantime we get to know each other?

I think, there is a shame/guilt I am dealing with because of social conditioning and I have also known for sure there are women love men who are taking & they don't care. It seems like I care more then her :)
PS: The option to let the mother of my kid out of my life will never happen.

Thank you so much in advance!

Taner
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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my GF would literally kill me. I got drunk and did some kissing touching with a girl while traveling. told my GF at the time. she went ape shvt. but finally forgave me as I wax drunk & high.
 

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my GF would literally kill me. I got drunk and did some kissing touching with a girl while traveling. told my GF at the time. she went ape shvt. but finally forgave me as I wax drunk & high.
Thanks god, my wife has changed over the last 2 years, she said, if it has to you can bring her home.
 
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