"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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How would you talk about your GF/wife with other Sets when you come closer?

reality250

reality250

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At the end of this month, my GF will be outside of country for 2 weeks, we still love each other, and she accepts I am still gaming for just fun.

But I always have the feeling I have to hide the fact that I have a kid with her, how to communicate frame that it is all about having fun and taking it very easy and in the meantime we get to know each other?

I think, there is a shame/guilt I am dealing with because of social conditioning and I have also known for sure there are women love men who are taking & they don't care. It seems like I care more then her :)
PS: The option to let the mother of my kid out of my life will never happen.

Thank you so much in advance!

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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my GF would literally kill me. I got drunk and did some kissing touching with a girl while traveling. told my GF at the time. she went ape shvt. but finally forgave me as I wax drunk & high.
 
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Hamurabimbi said:
my GF would literally kill me. I got drunk and did some kissing touching with a girl while traveling. told my GF at the time. she went ape shvt. but finally forgave me as I wax drunk & high.
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Thanks god, my wife has changed over the last 2 years, she said, if it has to you can bring her home.
 
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