"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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How would you talk about your GF/wife with other Sets when you come closer?

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At the end of this month, my GF will be outside of country for 2 weeks, we still love each other, and she accepts I am still gaming for just fun.

But I always have the feeling I have to hide the fact that I have a kid with her, how to communicate frame that it is all about having fun and taking it very easy and in the meantime we get to know each other?

I think, there is a shame/guilt I am dealing with because of social conditioning and I have also known for sure there are women love men who are taking & they don't care. It seems like I care more then her :)
PS: The option to let the mother of my kid out of my life will never happen.

Thank you so much in advance!

Taner
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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my GF would literally kill me. I got drunk and did some kissing touching with a girl while traveling. told my GF at the time. she went ape shvt. but finally forgave me as I wax drunk & high.
 
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Hamurabimbi said:
my GF would literally kill me. I got drunk and did some kissing touching with a girl while traveling. told my GF at the time. she went ape shvt. but finally forgave me as I wax drunk & high.
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Thanks god, my wife has changed over the last 2 years, she said, if it has to you can bring her home.
 
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