Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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How would you talk about your GF/wife with other Sets when you come closer?

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At the end of this month, my GF will be outside of country for 2 weeks, we still love each other, and she accepts I am still gaming for just fun.

But I always have the feeling I have to hide the fact that I have a kid with her, how to communicate frame that it is all about having fun and taking it very easy and in the meantime we get to know each other?

I think, there is a shame/guilt I am dealing with because of social conditioning and I have also known for sure there are women love men who are taking & they don't care. It seems like I care more then her :)
PS: The option to let the mother of my kid out of my life will never happen.

Thank you so much in advance!

Taner
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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my GF would literally kill me. I got drunk and did some kissing touching with a girl while traveling. told my GF at the time. she went ape shvt. but finally forgave me as I wax drunk & high.
 

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my GF would literally kill me. I got drunk and did some kissing touching with a girl while traveling. told my GF at the time. she went ape shvt. but finally forgave me as I wax drunk & high.
Thanks god, my wife has changed over the last 2 years, she said, if it has to you can bring her home.
 
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