"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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How would you feel?

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Say you had a babe or a wife that was 5'6" and 190lbs. She had a beer gut looking thing, not really cellulite, but tight fat, but thick pinches on her arms, shoulders, etc.

How would you feel if she lost 60lbs over 4 months. She is now razor sharp with outlines of abs, her legs and calves have musculature. You can see muscles in her back.

So if she was "heavy" and not really inspiring boners, she would be a "hammer" now right?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Say you had a babe or a wife that was 5'6" and 190lbs. She had a beer gut looking thing, not really cellulite, but tight fat, but thick pinches on her arms, shoulders, etc.

How would you feel if she lost 60lbs over 4 months. She is now razor sharp with outlines of abs, her legs and calves have musculature. You can see muscles in her back.

So if she was "heavy" and not really inspiring boners, she would be a "hammer" now right?
There is no woman who is 5' 6" and 190 lbs that would qualify as a "babe".

That's the first thing.

She is obese. Not fat, not thick. Obese.

That's the second thing.

I would never have been with her so I cannot answer the question.
 

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There is no woman who is 5' 6" and 190 lbs that would qualify as a "babe".

That's the first thing.

She is obese. Not fat, not thick. Obese.

That's the second thing.

I would never have been with her so I cannot answer the question.
A lot of men ended up married to one s that blew up or was big. If she dropped down and Was a sleek, fine, hammer I believe he'd be seriously attracted. He'd over time forget how weak his attraction was when she was portly.
 

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A lot of men ended up married to one s that blew up or was big. If she dropped down and Was a sleek, fine, hammer I believe he'd be seriously attracted. He'd over time forget how weak his attraction was when she was portly.
Yeah but soon enough she'd be cheating on him with random "hot" dudes that are giving her attention because she'll realize he must have no self-respect to have been with her when she was a whale.
 

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Two questions ??

How involved are you? You mentioned wife.. If your already liasing then how's the connection?
Secondly what's the motivation for this rapid change/self improvement???
Could be in your favour seriously esp if she focusses this energy into ban.g.ing ur brains out .
Or serious red flags if she wants a new dude etc or to get over/back at you as may be deciphered .if so enjoy other opportunities.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Yeah but soon enough she'd be cheating on him with random "hot" dudes that are giving her attention because she'll realize he must have no self-respect to have been with her when she was a whale.
Well I was giving the example so the sosuave.net members will be enticed to get in awesome physical condition. It makes a big difference.
 

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Two questions ??

How involved are you? You mentioned wife.. If your already liasing then how's the connection?
Secondly what's the motivation for this rapid change/self improvement???
Could be in your favour seriously esp if she focusses this energy into ban.g.ing ur brains out .
Or serious red flags if she wants a new dude etc or to get over/back at you as may be deciphered .if so enjoy other opportunities.
It was a hypothetical to show how important it is to be in top notch shape. It makes a large difference.
 

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Agreed Sir

Think I missed the subtlety of your rhetorical question. And sincerely noted. Self improvement is first class and foremost....
 
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