"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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How would you feel?

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Say you had a babe or a wife that was 5'6" and 190lbs. She had a beer gut looking thing, not really cellulite, but tight fat, but thick pinches on her arms, shoulders, etc.

How would you feel if she lost 60lbs over 4 months. She is now razor sharp with outlines of abs, her legs and calves have musculature. You can see muscles in her back.

So if she was "heavy" and not really inspiring boners, she would be a "hammer" now right?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Say you had a babe or a wife that was 5'6" and 190lbs. She had a beer gut looking thing, not really cellulite, but tight fat, but thick pinches on her arms, shoulders, etc.

How would you feel if she lost 60lbs over 4 months. She is now razor sharp with outlines of abs, her legs and calves have musculature. You can see muscles in her back.

So if she was "heavy" and not really inspiring boners, she would be a "hammer" now right?
There is no woman who is 5' 6" and 190 lbs that would qualify as a "babe".

That's the first thing.

She is obese. Not fat, not thick. Obese.

That's the second thing.

I would never have been with her so I cannot answer the question.
 

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There is no woman who is 5' 6" and 190 lbs that would qualify as a "babe".

That's the first thing.

She is obese. Not fat, not thick. Obese.

That's the second thing.

I would never have been with her so I cannot answer the question.
A lot of men ended up married to one s that blew up or was big. If she dropped down and Was a sleek, fine, hammer I believe he'd be seriously attracted. He'd over time forget how weak his attraction was when she was portly.
 

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A lot of men ended up married to one s that blew up or was big. If she dropped down and Was a sleek, fine, hammer I believe he'd be seriously attracted. He'd over time forget how weak his attraction was when she was portly.
Yeah but soon enough she'd be cheating on him with random "hot" dudes that are giving her attention because she'll realize he must have no self-respect to have been with her when she was a whale.
 

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Two questions ??

How involved are you? You mentioned wife.. If your already liasing then how's the connection?
Secondly what's the motivation for this rapid change/self improvement???
Could be in your favour seriously esp if she focusses this energy into ban.g.ing ur brains out .
Or serious red flags if she wants a new dude etc or to get over/back at you as may be deciphered .if so enjoy other opportunities.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Yeah but soon enough she'd be cheating on him with random "hot" dudes that are giving her attention because she'll realize he must have no self-respect to have been with her when she was a whale.
Well I was giving the example so the sosuave.net members will be enticed to get in awesome physical condition. It makes a big difference.
 

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Two questions ??

How involved are you? You mentioned wife.. If your already liasing then how's the connection?
Secondly what's the motivation for this rapid change/self improvement???
Could be in your favour seriously esp if she focusses this energy into ban.g.ing ur brains out .
Or serious red flags if she wants a new dude etc or to get over/back at you as may be deciphered .if so enjoy other opportunities.
It was a hypothetical to show how important it is to be in top notch shape. It makes a large difference.
 

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Agreed Sir

Think I missed the subtlety of your rhetorical question. And sincerely noted. Self improvement is first class and foremost....
 
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