"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Say you had a babe or a wife that was 5'6" and 190lbs. She had a beer gut looking thing, not really cellulite, but tight fat, but thick pinches on her arms, shoulders, etc.

How would you feel if she lost 60lbs over 4 months. She is now razor sharp with outlines of abs, her legs and calves have musculature. You can see muscles in her back.

So if she was "heavy" and not really inspiring boners, she would be a "hammer" now right?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Say you had a babe or a wife that was 5'6" and 190lbs. She had a beer gut looking thing, not really cellulite, but tight fat, but thick pinches on her arms, shoulders, etc.

How would you feel if she lost 60lbs over 4 months. She is now razor sharp with outlines of abs, her legs and calves have musculature. You can see muscles in her back.

So if she was "heavy" and not really inspiring boners, she would be a "hammer" now right?
There is no woman who is 5' 6" and 190 lbs that would qualify as a "babe".

That's the first thing.

She is obese. Not fat, not thick. Obese.

That's the second thing.

I would never have been with her so I cannot answer the question.
 

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There is no woman who is 5' 6" and 190 lbs that would qualify as a "babe".

That's the first thing.

She is obese. Not fat, not thick. Obese.

That's the second thing.

I would never have been with her so I cannot answer the question.
A lot of men ended up married to one s that blew up or was big. If she dropped down and Was a sleek, fine, hammer I believe he'd be seriously attracted. He'd over time forget how weak his attraction was when she was portly.
 

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A lot of men ended up married to one s that blew up or was big. If she dropped down and Was a sleek, fine, hammer I believe he'd be seriously attracted. He'd over time forget how weak his attraction was when she was portly.
Yeah but soon enough she'd be cheating on him with random "hot" dudes that are giving her attention because she'll realize he must have no self-respect to have been with her when she was a whale.
 

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Two questions ??

How involved are you? You mentioned wife.. If your already liasing then how's the connection?
Secondly what's the motivation for this rapid change/self improvement???
Could be in your favour seriously esp if she focusses this energy into ban.g.ing ur brains out .
Or serious red flags if she wants a new dude etc or to get over/back at you as may be deciphered .if so enjoy other opportunities.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Yeah but soon enough she'd be cheating on him with random "hot" dudes that are giving her attention because she'll realize he must have no self-respect to have been with her when she was a whale.
Well I was giving the example so the sosuave.net members will be enticed to get in awesome physical condition. It makes a big difference.
 

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Two questions ??

How involved are you? You mentioned wife.. If your already liasing then how's the connection?
Secondly what's the motivation for this rapid change/self improvement???
Could be in your favour seriously esp if she focusses this energy into ban.g.ing ur brains out .
Or serious red flags if she wants a new dude etc or to get over/back at you as may be deciphered .if so enjoy other opportunities.
It was a hypothetical to show how important it is to be in top notch shape. It makes a large difference.
 

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Agreed Sir

Think I missed the subtlety of your rhetorical question. And sincerely noted. Self improvement is first class and foremost....
 
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