"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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How would you feel?

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Say you had a babe or a wife that was 5'6" and 190lbs. She had a beer gut looking thing, not really cellulite, but tight fat, but thick pinches on her arms, shoulders, etc.

How would you feel if she lost 60lbs over 4 months. She is now razor sharp with outlines of abs, her legs and calves have musculature. You can see muscles in her back.

So if she was "heavy" and not really inspiring boners, she would be a "hammer" now right?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Say you had a babe or a wife that was 5'6" and 190lbs. She had a beer gut looking thing, not really cellulite, but tight fat, but thick pinches on her arms, shoulders, etc.

How would you feel if she lost 60lbs over 4 months. She is now razor sharp with outlines of abs, her legs and calves have musculature. You can see muscles in her back.

So if she was "heavy" and not really inspiring boners, she would be a "hammer" now right?
There is no woman who is 5' 6" and 190 lbs that would qualify as a "babe".

That's the first thing.

She is obese. Not fat, not thick. Obese.

That's the second thing.

I would never have been with her so I cannot answer the question.
 

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There is no woman who is 5' 6" and 190 lbs that would qualify as a "babe".

That's the first thing.

She is obese. Not fat, not thick. Obese.

That's the second thing.

I would never have been with her so I cannot answer the question.
A lot of men ended up married to one s that blew up or was big. If she dropped down and Was a sleek, fine, hammer I believe he'd be seriously attracted. He'd over time forget how weak his attraction was when she was portly.
 

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A lot of men ended up married to one s that blew up or was big. If she dropped down and Was a sleek, fine, hammer I believe he'd be seriously attracted. He'd over time forget how weak his attraction was when she was portly.
Yeah but soon enough she'd be cheating on him with random "hot" dudes that are giving her attention because she'll realize he must have no self-respect to have been with her when she was a whale.
 

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Two questions ??

How involved are you? You mentioned wife.. If your already liasing then how's the connection?
Secondly what's the motivation for this rapid change/self improvement???
Could be in your favour seriously esp if she focusses this energy into ban.g.ing ur brains out .
Or serious red flags if she wants a new dude etc or to get over/back at you as may be deciphered .if so enjoy other opportunities.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Yeah but soon enough she'd be cheating on him with random "hot" dudes that are giving her attention because she'll realize he must have no self-respect to have been with her when she was a whale.
Well I was giving the example so the sosuave.net members will be enticed to get in awesome physical condition. It makes a big difference.
 

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Two questions ??

How involved are you? You mentioned wife.. If your already liasing then how's the connection?
Secondly what's the motivation for this rapid change/self improvement???
Could be in your favour seriously esp if she focusses this energy into ban.g.ing ur brains out .
Or serious red flags if she wants a new dude etc or to get over/back at you as may be deciphered .if so enjoy other opportunities.
It was a hypothetical to show how important it is to be in top notch shape. It makes a large difference.
 

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Agreed Sir

Think I missed the subtlety of your rhetorical question. And sincerely noted. Self improvement is first class and foremost....
 
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