zekko
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
how would u rate this guy
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Murk
Master Don Juan
Yeah there’s no way I allow that guy to interfere with my life
glass half full
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Modern day Alice Cooper! Lol
I'll pass. I hope you don't wear that out there Zekko...might get something different than what you really want hehe..
zekko
Master Don Juan
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For those who don't know, that picture is of famous pickup artist Mystery, who is considered one of the fathers of game.
No feathers for me though. I find my Captain's uniform provides all the peacocking I need
