Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Why are you posting selfie's now?![]()
from 1 to 10 in this particular picture?
HOT OR NOT?
I agree with this. Doesn't mean that some girl might not find him appealing though. Excess can sometimes be effective. Remember Mystery wore a fuzzy hat and black fingernail polish.Hard for me to judge men, but style look like he is trying too hard.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Does it work? Never seen something like that,could make a big improvment look wise.1) Narrow jaw. Need to widen, Jawzrsizer for 6-12 months: https://www.ebay.com/i/292851489994?chn=ps
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It works, similar to heavy bench press with extreme downward pressure on the masseters which I can no longer do due to a chest injury. It can effect up to a 12 mm increase in thickness for each masseter muscle, which is a significant aesthetic difference.Does it work? Never seen something like that,could make a big improvment look wise.
I guess it does.
This is good to know
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
1) Narrow jaw. Need to widen, Jawzrsizer for 6-12 months: https://www.ebay.com/i/292851489994?chn=ps
2) Lose leather jacket
3) Lose chain
4) Lose glasses
5) Shave
6) Hair gel
7) Thicken neck, train heavy
Plus game, then you got half a slayer.
So do I, thought maybe I was behind on style. (this would be no surprise lol)u dont like his clothes? i think clothes make him look good
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Well, I personally think looks rating posts should be confined to females…Talking about jaw size? Has this site turned into the Incel site?
Ratings, yes a female thing. Improvements, no. More than half the guys on this site are here largely due to their appearance.Well, I personally think looks rating posts should be confined to females…
Why? Any person can view attraction objectively.Well, I personally think looks rating posts should be confined to females…
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.