"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Hard for me to judge men, but style look like he is trying too hard.
 

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Hard for me to judge men, but style look like he is trying too hard.
I agree with this. Doesn't mean that some girl might not find him appealing though. Excess can sometimes be effective. Remember Mystery wore a fuzzy hat and black fingernail polish.

I'm no good with rating men either, but Mike above is probably right, he's probably upper mid level.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Dont like the facial hair style, not sure about the glasses.
I think shirt, coat and necklace match well together.

I think with a better style his rating would be way better, but im probably clueless about younger ppl styles.
 

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Does it work? Never seen something like that,could make a big improvment look wise.

I guess it does.
This is good to know
It works, similar to heavy bench press with extreme downward pressure on the masseters which I can no longer do due to a chest injury. It can effect up to a 12 mm increase in thickness for each masseter muscle, which is a significant aesthetic difference.

Takes time and consistency like body training but you’ll see thickness, tightness, and greater structure along with working ancillary facial muscles.

For the rest of the facial musculature, I recommend at home microcurrent devices as I described in Redskin’s thread.
 
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Not intending to highjack the thread but...while on the jawline correction subject, is there anything like this to bring a chin out further (even with uppers)?

I could use that. According to a facial recognition site, I have a typical English chin. (?)
 

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I think people are complaining about the leather jacket because it's so cliched. It's like "Oh, you're trying to look like a pickup artist". But I remember numerous posts here suggesting that wearing a leather jacket was a panty dropper. So either times change, or what?

I agree the necklace makes it worse, but I understand what he's going for. He's trying to find some way to stand out. Women have far more accessory options than men do.
 

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Talking about jaw size? Has this site turned into the Incel site?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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What @guru1000 said for the most part.

I think I would just get plastic surgery if I had a narrow jaw or was weak. Because you would have to work your jaw muscles for the rest of your life. Plus if it needed to be more sculpted the whole jaw has to be improved right down to the chin. And if you don’t have strong cheekbones, it’s going to look bottom heavy, saying this jaw thingy even works.. And the likihood of someone even doing it consistently for 12 months is very slim. Let alone 3. Everyday.. I dunno man

He’s a goodlooking guy. Needs to workout a bit and gain 15lbs of muscle. Leather blazers are tacky. Get a leather rocker or moto styled jacket. Shave his weak facial hair, lose the glasses. He’s fine, his style is just whack or 90’s styled. But based on the photo, it’s from a music video or something in that era. He looks symmetrical and has good brow bone, chin, eyes, lips and nose.
 

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Well, I personally think looks rating posts should be confined to females…
Ratings, yes a female thing. Improvements, no. More than half the guys on this site are here largely due to their appearance.
 

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Looks like a fag.

I could pull off those clothes and glasses though.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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