There is this chick that is "all over me" at work. I wouldnt mind hooking up with her, but i also want to try my luck with these 2 other in my job. I have been getting good vibes from these other 2 chicks. What should I do? should i follow the popular belief and not date/hook up with anyone at work? If i date/hook up with girl a, then she will tell girl b about it....that would probably ruin my chances of scoring with any other. what to do?
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Don't assume anything dude. Most importantly, don't assume that you can have any of these 3 chicks, and don't assume that fishing off the company pier doesn't eventually entail some hard-a$$ implications, take it from the Idiotic Yours Truly
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
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if you went with one, it wouldn't even be a 1/10 of the trouble then if you tryied it with all three.
jeleousy is a horible thing. Imagine all three of them geting jalous and gagning up on you. You'll wish you ware burning in hell.
jeleousy is a horible thing. Imagine all three of them geting jalous and gagning up on you. You'll wish you ware burning in hell.
So then go for all 3.
It seems you have the wrong frame in mind about all this. Like hooking up with 1, will then kill off the other 2. Hell no!
On the contrary, hooking up with 1 could serve just as evolution does... to build your status/power/attraction. And to play up this infamous power/clout as the head lion up in there. I would (after hooking one of the girls) layback, and let them come to you. Bust on the other 2, drop indirect seeds of naughtyness in their mind, then neg them... as if they "thought they're genes were good enough to have the lion."
From there throw your feet up on top of your desk, and enjoy the ****y/funny frame stealing view... until you got number 2 and 3 purring for it.
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It seems you have the wrong frame in mind about all this. Like hooking up with 1, will then kill off the other 2. Hell no!
On the contrary, hooking up with 1 could serve just as evolution does... to build your status/power/attraction. And to play up this infamous power/clout as the head lion up in there. I would (after hooking one of the girls) layback, and let them come to you. Bust on the other 2, drop indirect seeds of naughtyness in their mind, then neg them... as if they "thought they're genes were good enough to have the lion."
From there throw your feet up on top of your desk, and enjoy the ****y/funny frame stealing view... until you got number 2 and 3 purring for it.
Darklight'