There is this chick that is "all over me" at work. I wouldnt mind hooking up with her, but i also want to try my luck with these 2 other in my job. I have been getting good vibes from these other 2 chicks. What should I do? should i follow the popular belief and not date/hook up with anyone at work? If i date/hook up with girl a, then she will tell girl b about it....that would probably ruin my chances of scoring with any other. what to do?
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
how to...
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- Start date
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Don't assume anything dude. Most importantly, don't assume that you can have any of these 3 chicks, and don't assume that fishing off the company pier doesn't eventually entail some hard-a$$ implications, take it from the Idiotic Yours Truly
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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if you went with one, it wouldn't even be a 1/10 of the trouble then if you tryied it with all three.
jeleousy is a horible thing. Imagine all three of them geting jalous and gagning up on you. You'll wish you ware burning in hell.
jeleousy is a horible thing. Imagine all three of them geting jalous and gagning up on you. You'll wish you ware burning in hell.
So then go for all 3.
It seems you have the wrong frame in mind about all this. Like hooking up with 1, will then kill off the other 2. Hell no!
On the contrary, hooking up with 1 could serve just as evolution does... to build your status/power/attraction. And to play up this infamous power/clout as the head lion up in there. I would (after hooking one of the girls) layback, and let them come to you. Bust on the other 2, drop indirect seeds of naughtyness in their mind, then neg them... as if they "thought they're genes were good enough to have the lion."
From there throw your feet up on top of your desk, and enjoy the ****y/funny frame stealing view... until you got number 2 and 3 purring for it.
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It seems you have the wrong frame in mind about all this. Like hooking up with 1, will then kill off the other 2. Hell no!
On the contrary, hooking up with 1 could serve just as evolution does... to build your status/power/attraction. And to play up this infamous power/clout as the head lion up in there. I would (after hooking one of the girls) layback, and let them come to you. Bust on the other 2, drop indirect seeds of naughtyness in their mind, then neg them... as if they "thought they're genes were good enough to have the lion."
From there throw your feet up on top of your desk, and enjoy the ****y/funny frame stealing view... until you got number 2 and 3 purring for it.
Darklight'