There is this chick that is "all over me" at work. I wouldnt mind hooking up with her, but i also want to try my luck with these 2 other in my job. I have been getting good vibes from these other 2 chicks. What should I do? should i follow the popular belief and not date/hook up with anyone at work? If i date/hook up with girl a, then she will tell girl b about it....that would probably ruin my chances of scoring with any other. what to do?
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
how to...
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- Start date
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Don't assume anything dude. Most importantly, don't assume that you can have any of these 3 chicks, and don't assume that fishing off the company pier doesn't eventually entail some hard-a$$ implications, take it from the Idiotic Yours Truly
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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if you went with one, it wouldn't even be a 1/10 of the trouble then if you tryied it with all three.
jeleousy is a horible thing. Imagine all three of them geting jalous and gagning up on you. You'll wish you ware burning in hell.
jeleousy is a horible thing. Imagine all three of them geting jalous and gagning up on you. You'll wish you ware burning in hell.
So then go for all 3.
It seems you have the wrong frame in mind about all this. Like hooking up with 1, will then kill off the other 2. Hell no!
On the contrary, hooking up with 1 could serve just as evolution does... to build your status/power/attraction. And to play up this infamous power/clout as the head lion up in there. I would (after hooking one of the girls) layback, and let them come to you. Bust on the other 2, drop indirect seeds of naughtyness in their mind, then neg them... as if they "thought they're genes were good enough to have the lion."
From there throw your feet up on top of your desk, and enjoy the ****y/funny frame stealing view... until you got number 2 and 3 purring for it.
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It seems you have the wrong frame in mind about all this. Like hooking up with 1, will then kill off the other 2. Hell no!
On the contrary, hooking up with 1 could serve just as evolution does... to build your status/power/attraction. And to play up this infamous power/clout as the head lion up in there. I would (after hooking one of the girls) layback, and let them come to you. Bust on the other 2, drop indirect seeds of naughtyness in their mind, then neg them... as if they "thought they're genes were good enough to have the lion."
From there throw your feet up on top of your desk, and enjoy the ****y/funny frame stealing view... until you got number 2 and 3 purring for it.
Darklight'