"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Triangulo

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There is this chick that is "all over me" at work. I wouldnt mind hooking up with her, but i also want to try my luck with these 2 other in my job. I have been getting good vibes from these other 2 chicks. What should I do? should i follow the popular belief and not date/hook up with anyone at work? If i date/hook up with girl a, then she will tell girl b about it....that would probably ruin my chances of scoring with any other. what to do?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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If i date/hook up with girl a, then she will tell girl b about it....that would probably ruin my chances of scoring with any other.
Don't assume anything dude. Most importantly, don't assume that you can have any of these 3 chicks, and don't assume that fishing off the company pier doesn't eventually entail some hard-a$$ implications, take it from the Idiotic Yours Truly :mad:
 

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You're thinking way to far ahead. I'd say have some fun with the girl your'e most attracted to, and then decide you're next action from there.
 

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Originally posted by Triangulo
There is this chick that is "all over me" at work. I wouldnt mind hooking up with her, but i also want to try my luck with these 2 other in my job. I have been getting good vibes from these other 2 chicks. What should I do? should i follow the popular belief and not date/hook up with anyone at work? If i date/hook up with girl a, then she will tell girl b about it....that would probably ruin my chances of scoring with any other. what to do?
Pick one...
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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if you went with one, it wouldn't even be a 1/10 of the trouble then if you tryied it with all three.

jeleousy is a horible thing. Imagine all three of them geting jalous and gagning up on you. You'll wish you ware burning in hell.
 

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So then go for all 3.

It seems you have the wrong frame in mind about all this. Like hooking up with 1, will then kill off the other 2. Hell no!
On the contrary, hooking up with 1 could serve just as evolution does... to build your status/power/attraction. And to play up this infamous power/clout as the head lion up in there. I would (after hooking one of the girls) layback, and let them come to you. Bust on the other 2, drop indirect seeds of naughtyness in their mind, then neg them... as if they "thought they're genes were good enough to have the lion."
From there throw your feet up on top of your desk, and enjoy the ****y/funny frame stealing view... until you got number 2 and 3 purring for it.

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