There is this chick that is "all over me" at work. I wouldnt mind hooking up with her, but i also want to try my luck with these 2 other in my job. I have been getting good vibes from these other 2 chicks. What should I do? should i follow the popular belief and not date/hook up with anyone at work? If i date/hook up with girl a, then she will tell girl b about it....that would probably ruin my chances of scoring with any other. what to do?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Don't assume anything dude. Most importantly, don't assume that you can have any of these 3 chicks, and don't assume that fishing off the company pier doesn't eventually entail some hard-a$$ implications, take it from the Idiotic Yours Truly
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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if you went with one, it wouldn't even be a 1/10 of the trouble then if you tryied it with all three.
jeleousy is a horible thing. Imagine all three of them geting jalous and gagning up on you. You'll wish you ware burning in hell.
jeleousy is a horible thing. Imagine all three of them geting jalous and gagning up on you. You'll wish you ware burning in hell.
So then go for all 3.
It seems you have the wrong frame in mind about all this. Like hooking up with 1, will then kill off the other 2. Hell no!
On the contrary, hooking up with 1 could serve just as evolution does... to build your status/power/attraction. And to play up this infamous power/clout as the head lion up in there. I would (after hooking one of the girls) layback, and let them come to you. Bust on the other 2, drop indirect seeds of naughtyness in their mind, then neg them... as if they "thought they're genes were good enough to have the lion."
From there throw your feet up on top of your desk, and enjoy the ****y/funny frame stealing view... until you got number 2 and 3 purring for it.
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It seems you have the wrong frame in mind about all this. Like hooking up with 1, will then kill off the other 2. Hell no!
On the contrary, hooking up with 1 could serve just as evolution does... to build your status/power/attraction. And to play up this infamous power/clout as the head lion up in there. I would (after hooking one of the girls) layback, and let them come to you. Bust on the other 2, drop indirect seeds of naughtyness in their mind, then neg them... as if they "thought they're genes were good enough to have the lion."
From there throw your feet up on top of your desk, and enjoy the ****y/funny frame stealing view... until you got number 2 and 3 purring for it.
Darklight'