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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
How to win over a bad boy...By Chelsea Kaplan
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Good news for us aspiring DJ's since a DJ is a hybrid of the two (more or less anyway...i'm generalizing)
Or to get an idea of how her last relationship panned out. The end is always in the beginning if you look close enough...
:crackup: :crackup:
Umm...yeah, it's called self-independence and self-improvement. Nobody comes first but me and only me.
Typical crap. What else can you expect from somebody who wrote a book about manhandling?
Don't be a slave to women like these, guys. Find your balls, grab them, and rock on. :rockon:
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Good observation, wutang. It's hard to keep a leash on an Amerikan woman because they aren't as loyal as Russian women.wutangfinancial said:
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i sorta agree.wutangfinancial said:
you don't see a "bad boy" without good looks.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
LeComteDeMonteCristo
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Good lord, if there was a record for the highest number of clichés and stereotypes in 1000 words, I think Chelsea Kaplan has just smashed it.
Seriously, it feels like I have read this same article 101 times before.
Seriously, it feels like I have read this same article 101 times before.
Francisco d'Anconia
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Gubby said:
:crackup:LeComteDeMonteCristo said:
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:crackup: THIS has to be the funniest article I've ever read. I almost fell out of my seat laughing from this so called "love coach".
I just keep picturing all these women taking notes, studying articles like this, and then trying to place us in to one of two types...marriage material or bad boy. :crackup:
This great news for us men though! The less women know about US, the better, IMO.
I just keep picturing all these women taking notes, studying articles like this, and then trying to place us in to one of two types...marriage material or bad boy. :crackup:
This great news for us men though! The less women know about US, the better, IMO.