"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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How to win over a bad boy...By Chelsea Kaplan

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Most men fall into one of two categories, Marrying Men and Hardened Bachelors, aka Bad Boys.
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Good news for us aspiring DJ's since a DJ is a hybrid of the two (more or less anyway...i'm generalizing)

When dating, he asks questions like, “What was your last relationship like?” to understand whether you qualify as a marriage-minded woman.
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Or to get an idea of how her last relationship panned out. The end is always in the beginning if you look close enough...

Marrying Men like being in relationships. In fact, they need them. Now, “need” isn’t a dirty word when it comes to men in relationships, because in truth, men only marry the women they need.
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:crackup: :crackup:

The thing to remember about these guys is that you will never come first; he’s totally self-involved, so keep your expectations realistic.
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Umm...yeah, it's called self-independence and self-improvement. Nobody comes first but me and only me.

Typical crap. What else can you expect from somebody who wrote a book about manhandling?

Don't be a slave to women like these, guys. Find your balls, grab them, and rock on. :rockon:
 
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What a waste of space.

"Love coach"?

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wutangfinancial said:
Men come in two types, good looking and not good looking. The not good looking guys compensate by having good careers, being stable, and just being all around nice guys. They marry, out of desperation, and their women cheat on them with good looking guys, who were given the greatest gift in nature.

Look, bad boy is simply woman-ese for good looking. All women want to get a guy out of their league and tame him.
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Good observation, wutang. It's hard to keep a leash on an Amerikan woman because they aren't as loyal as Russian women.
 
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wutangfinancial said:
Men come in two types, good looking and not good looking. The not good looking guys compensate by having good careers, being stable, and just being all around nice guys. They marry, out of desperation, and their women cheat on them with good looking guys, who were given the greatest gift in nature.

Look, bad boy is simply woman-ese for good looking. All women want to get a guy out of their league and tame him.
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i sorta agree.
you don't see a "bad boy" without good looks.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Good lord, if there was a record for the highest number of clichés and stereotypes in 1000 words, I think Chelsea Kaplan has just smashed it.

Seriously, it feels like I have read this same article 101 times before.
 
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Gubby said:
What a waste of space.

"Love coach"?

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LeComteDeMonteCristo said:
Good lord, if there was a record for the highest number of clichés and stereotypes in 1000 words, I think Chelsea Kaplan has just smashed it.
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:crackup: THIS has to be the funniest article I've ever read. I almost fell out of my seat laughing from this so called "love coach".

I just keep picturing all these women taking notes, studying articles like this, and then trying to place us in to one of two types...marriage material or bad boy. :crackup:

This great news for us men though! The less women know about US, the better, IMO.
 
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