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That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Good news for us aspiring DJ's since a DJ is a hybrid of the two (more or less anyway...i'm generalizing)Most men fall into one of two categories, Marrying Men and Hardened Bachelors, aka Bad Boys.
Or to get an idea of how her last relationship panned out. The end is always in the beginning if you look close enough...When dating, he asks questions like, “What was your last relationship like?” to understand whether you qualify as a marriage-minded woman.
:crackup: :crackup:Marrying Men like being in relationships. In fact, they need them. Now, “need” isn’t a dirty word when it comes to men in relationships, because in truth, men only marry the women they need.
Umm...yeah, it's called self-independence and self-improvement. Nobody comes first but me and only me.The thing to remember about these guys is that you will never come first; he’s totally self-involved, so keep your expectations realistic.
Good observation, wutang. It's hard to keep a leash on an Amerikan woman because they aren't as loyal as Russian women.wutangfinancial said:Men come in two types, good looking and not good looking. The not good looking guys compensate by having good careers, being stable, and just being all around nice guys. They marry, out of desperation, and their women cheat on them with good looking guys, who were given the greatest gift in nature.
Look, bad boy is simply woman-ese for good looking. All women want to get a guy out of their league and tame him.
i sorta agree.wutangfinancial said:Men come in two types, good looking and not good looking. The not good looking guys compensate by having good careers, being stable, and just being all around nice guys. They marry, out of desperation, and their women cheat on them with good looking guys, who were given the greatest gift in nature.
Look, bad boy is simply woman-ese for good looking. All women want to get a guy out of their league and tame him.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Gubby said:What a waste of space.
"Love coach"?
Unemployed people contribute more.
:crackup:LeComteDeMonteCristo said:Good lord, if there was a record for the highest number of clichés and stereotypes in 1000 words, I think Chelsea Kaplan has just smashed it.