Poonani Maker
Master Don Juan
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You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Good news for us aspiring DJ's since a DJ is a hybrid of the two (more or less anyway...i'm generalizing)Most men fall into one of two categories, Marrying Men and Hardened Bachelors, aka Bad Boys.
Or to get an idea of how her last relationship panned out. The end is always in the beginning if you look close enough...When dating, he asks questions like, “What was your last relationship like?” to understand whether you qualify as a marriage-minded woman.
:crackup: :crackup:Marrying Men like being in relationships. In fact, they need them. Now, “need” isn’t a dirty word when it comes to men in relationships, because in truth, men only marry the women they need.
Umm...yeah, it's called self-independence and self-improvement. Nobody comes first but me and only me.The thing to remember about these guys is that you will never come first; he’s totally self-involved, so keep your expectations realistic.
Good observation, wutang. It's hard to keep a leash on an Amerikan woman because they aren't as loyal as Russian women.wutangfinancial said:Men come in two types, good looking and not good looking. The not good looking guys compensate by having good careers, being stable, and just being all around nice guys. They marry, out of desperation, and their women cheat on them with good looking guys, who were given the greatest gift in nature.
Look, bad boy is simply woman-ese for good looking. All women want to get a guy out of their league and tame him.
i sorta agree.wutangfinancial said:Men come in two types, good looking and not good looking. The not good looking guys compensate by having good careers, being stable, and just being all around nice guys. They marry, out of desperation, and their women cheat on them with good looking guys, who were given the greatest gift in nature.
Look, bad boy is simply woman-ese for good looking. All women want to get a guy out of their league and tame him.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Gubby said:What a waste of space.
"Love coach"?
Unemployed people contribute more.
:crackup:LeComteDeMonteCristo said:Good lord, if there was a record for the highest number of clichés and stereotypes in 1000 words, I think Chelsea Kaplan has just smashed it.