Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Most guys, especially on the Internet are going to make it seem like they are screwing models left and right. To answer your question, I wouldn't treat them any different than any other girl you are attracted to.Ive noticed a pattern on this thread. All the 'rules' tend to apply demanded females/attractive females and not the ones that are not high in demand.
Or do you treat all women the same?
Are you kidding? Do you treat a client who has tons of funds the same as one who has very little? It's about her looks. Nothing else really matters.Ive noticed a pattern on this thread. All the 'rules' tend to apply demanded females/attractive females and not the ones that are not high in demand.
Or do you treat all women the same?
I say treat then all the same to a point, you sure won't try to get anything from a woman you don't feel anything, but some light flirting to practice, or just to make her like you so it will make things easy for you based on her position in a busines can be helpfull, just don't go overboard and check responses.Ive noticed a pattern on this thread. All the 'rules' tend to apply demanded females/attractive females and not the ones that are not high in demand.
Or do you treat all women the same?
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Same here. Seems I just can't be friends with unattractive girls, except when the unattractiveness is mutual.I've had problems in the past where I treated them well and they thought I was interested. Then you have to tell them know it's just friends and you get the whole woman scorned drama so they won't be friends anyway and the whole time and the whole time invested was just a waste
Don't know what that last part meant, but I personally would at least try to overlook looks in a non-dating context. Not befriending nor even socializing nor working alongside the opposite sex on the grounds of looks/image/status is what females do, lets not follow their example. This is just emotional and psychological BS exclusive to them, not to mention that in work alone it is unprofessional and tactless. I can't count the occasions I have felt embarrassed or shy talking to anyone I identify as female and being myself, having got such rude treatment by previous other girls.Same here. Seems I just can't be friends with unattractive girls, except when the unattractiveness is mutual.
Typically heterosexual men are attracted to women who display signs of youth, femininity and fertility. Those who have high self esteem and style savvy get extra points. Everyone else who is a woman is no less a woman, its just biology.Ive noticed a pattern on this thread. All the 'rules' tend to apply demanded females/attractive females and not the ones that are not high in demand.
Or do you treat all women the same?
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
They will exhibit more relationship parity and more concerned about what they can do to benefit you. There will be very low entitlement out of these types. Also the sex will flow more freely and she will more willingly submit.In my experience, unattractive/average girls will be grateful for the attention, and will do more things to keep you. They also will put up with more shiit from you, and are less likely to leave.
And she can still LOOK "hot" if she was more into fashion, makeup and kept her body tight.They will exhibit more relationship parity and more concerned about what they can do to benefit you. There will be very low entitlement out of these types. Also the sex will flow more freely and she will more willingly submit.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.