You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Most guys, especially on the Internet are going to make it seem like they are screwing models left and right. To answer your question, I wouldn't treat them any different than any other girl you are attracted to.Ive noticed a pattern on this thread. All the 'rules' tend to apply demanded females/attractive females and not the ones that are not high in demand.
Or do you treat all women the same?
Are you kidding? Do you treat a client who has tons of funds the same as one who has very little? It's about her looks. Nothing else really matters.Ive noticed a pattern on this thread. All the 'rules' tend to apply demanded females/attractive females and not the ones that are not high in demand.
Or do you treat all women the same?
I say treat then all the same to a point, you sure won't try to get anything from a woman you don't feel anything, but some light flirting to practice, or just to make her like you so it will make things easy for you based on her position in a busines can be helpfull, just don't go overboard and check responses.Ive noticed a pattern on this thread. All the 'rules' tend to apply demanded females/attractive females and not the ones that are not high in demand.
Or do you treat all women the same?
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Same here. Seems I just can't be friends with unattractive girls, except when the unattractiveness is mutual.I've had problems in the past where I treated them well and they thought I was interested. Then you have to tell them know it's just friends and you get the whole woman scorned drama so they won't be friends anyway and the whole time and the whole time invested was just a waste
Don't know what that last part meant, but I personally would at least try to overlook looks in a non-dating context. Not befriending nor even socializing nor working alongside the opposite sex on the grounds of looks/image/status is what females do, lets not follow their example. This is just emotional and psychological BS exclusive to them, not to mention that in work alone it is unprofessional and tactless. I can't count the occasions I have felt embarrassed or shy talking to anyone I identify as female and being myself, having got such rude treatment by previous other girls.Same here. Seems I just can't be friends with unattractive girls, except when the unattractiveness is mutual.
Typically heterosexual men are attracted to women who display signs of youth, femininity and fertility. Those who have high self esteem and style savvy get extra points. Everyone else who is a woman is no less a woman, its just biology.Ive noticed a pattern on this thread. All the 'rules' tend to apply demanded females/attractive females and not the ones that are not high in demand.
Or do you treat all women the same?
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
They will exhibit more relationship parity and more concerned about what they can do to benefit you. There will be very low entitlement out of these types. Also the sex will flow more freely and she will more willingly submit.In my experience, unattractive/average girls will be grateful for the attention, and will do more things to keep you. They also will put up with more shiit from you, and are less likely to leave.
And she can still LOOK "hot" if she was more into fashion, makeup and kept her body tight.They will exhibit more relationship parity and more concerned about what they can do to benefit you. There will be very low entitlement out of these types. Also the sex will flow more freely and she will more willingly submit.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.