amnbyrd
Don Juan
Ive got 3 universities in the town Im in-the problem is Im not a student-Im military. ANy suggestions on how to work my way in? The civies seem to be able to easily pick us out.
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
How to start a Social circle from nothing!
- Thread starter cyp6
- Start date
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Maxtro
Master Don Juan
I'm very wary of making guy friends. I haven't had a group of guy friends since High School, that was about 8 years ago. We were all basically the dorks or what ever. I broke contact with them about two years after graduation. One of them still calls me every now and then when he's high 
The last guy friend I had ended up using me as a cover while he was cheating on his girlfriend.
Generally I just don't like guys. Why waste my time with a guy when I can spend it with a girl? Also I've only had guy friends my whole life and felt like it was time wasted, that I should have spent with girls.
The last guy friend I had ended up using me as a cover while he was cheating on his girlfriend.
Generally I just don't like guys. Why waste my time with a guy when I can spend it with a girl? Also I've only had guy friends my whole life and felt like it was time wasted, that I should have spent with girls.
Luke Skywalker
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When I feel lonely I have a nice collection of gospel music artists that I listen to and if I occupy my mind with good music, especially from sexy sounding female vocalists, then I feel good - sometimes I get this soul-sister connection from the singers.
Anyway....I've been thinking about this site called http://www.meetup.com
Basically, this is an online social networking site, and basically groups from all over the place use this as a meeting venue. Then you got these other small groups in church, etc... that could also serve as potential networking - as well as work based.
So, the best way to start a social circle from nothing is probably to go on meetup.com
Anyway....I've been thinking about this site called http://www.meetup.com
Basically, this is an online social networking site, and basically groups from all over the place use this as a meeting venue. Then you got these other small groups in church, etc... that could also serve as potential networking - as well as work based.
So, the best way to start a social circle from nothing is probably to go on meetup.com
The Inside Man
Master Don Juan
No the best way to create a social circle is to go out and meet real people in real life.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
you forgot the pub its way easier to make friends there
why?
When you start to talk someone buy a beer for you and him
and the talk will flow
He will buy you a beer you him blabla and at the end you know him better than you wish ;_;
why?
When you start to talk someone buy a beer for you and him
and the talk will flow
He will buy you a beer you him blabla and at the end you know him better than you wish ;_;
GaryUranga
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im starting to apply this pretty much figured it out myself, but yeah just getting in as many social things I can as possible