amnbyrd
Don Juan
Ive got 3 universities in the town Im in-the problem is Im not a student-Im military. ANy suggestions on how to work my way in? The civies seem to be able to easily pick us out.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
How to start a Social circle from nothing!
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Maxtro
Master Don Juan
I'm very wary of making guy friends. I haven't had a group of guy friends since High School, that was about 8 years ago. We were all basically the dorks or what ever. I broke contact with them about two years after graduation. One of them still calls me every now and then when he's high 
The last guy friend I had ended up using me as a cover while he was cheating on his girlfriend.
Generally I just don't like guys. Why waste my time with a guy when I can spend it with a girl? Also I've only had guy friends my whole life and felt like it was time wasted, that I should have spent with girls.
The last guy friend I had ended up using me as a cover while he was cheating on his girlfriend.
Generally I just don't like guys. Why waste my time with a guy when I can spend it with a girl? Also I've only had guy friends my whole life and felt like it was time wasted, that I should have spent with girls.
Luke Skywalker
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When I feel lonely I have a nice collection of gospel music artists that I listen to and if I occupy my mind with good music, especially from sexy sounding female vocalists, then I feel good - sometimes I get this soul-sister connection from the singers.
Anyway....I've been thinking about this site called http://www.meetup.com
Basically, this is an online social networking site, and basically groups from all over the place use this as a meeting venue. Then you got these other small groups in church, etc... that could also serve as potential networking - as well as work based.
So, the best way to start a social circle from nothing is probably to go on meetup.com
Anyway....I've been thinking about this site called http://www.meetup.com
Basically, this is an online social networking site, and basically groups from all over the place use this as a meeting venue. Then you got these other small groups in church, etc... that could also serve as potential networking - as well as work based.
So, the best way to start a social circle from nothing is probably to go on meetup.com
The Inside Man
Master Don Juan
No the best way to create a social circle is to go out and meet real people in real life.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
you forgot the pub its way easier to make friends there
why?
When you start to talk someone buy a beer for you and him
and the talk will flow
He will buy you a beer you him blabla and at the end you know him better than you wish ;_;
why?
When you start to talk someone buy a beer for you and him
and the talk will flow
He will buy you a beer you him blabla and at the end you know him better than you wish ;_;
GaryUranga
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im starting to apply this pretty much figured it out myself, but yeah just getting in as many social things I can as possible