amnbyrd
Don Juan
Ive got 3 universities in the town Im in-the problem is Im not a student-Im military. ANy suggestions on how to work my way in? The civies seem to be able to easily pick us out.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
How to start a Social circle from nothing!
- Thread starter cyp6
- Start date
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Maxtro
Master Don Juan
I'm very wary of making guy friends. I haven't had a group of guy friends since High School, that was about 8 years ago. We were all basically the dorks or what ever. I broke contact with them about two years after graduation. One of them still calls me every now and then when he's high 
The last guy friend I had ended up using me as a cover while he was cheating on his girlfriend.
Generally I just don't like guys. Why waste my time with a guy when I can spend it with a girl? Also I've only had guy friends my whole life and felt like it was time wasted, that I should have spent with girls.
The last guy friend I had ended up using me as a cover while he was cheating on his girlfriend.
Generally I just don't like guys. Why waste my time with a guy when I can spend it with a girl? Also I've only had guy friends my whole life and felt like it was time wasted, that I should have spent with girls.
Luke Skywalker
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When I feel lonely I have a nice collection of gospel music artists that I listen to and if I occupy my mind with good music, especially from sexy sounding female vocalists, then I feel good - sometimes I get this soul-sister connection from the singers.
Anyway....I've been thinking about this site called http://www.meetup.com
Basically, this is an online social networking site, and basically groups from all over the place use this as a meeting venue. Then you got these other small groups in church, etc... that could also serve as potential networking - as well as work based.
So, the best way to start a social circle from nothing is probably to go on meetup.com
Anyway....I've been thinking about this site called http://www.meetup.com
Basically, this is an online social networking site, and basically groups from all over the place use this as a meeting venue. Then you got these other small groups in church, etc... that could also serve as potential networking - as well as work based.
So, the best way to start a social circle from nothing is probably to go on meetup.com
The Inside Man
Master Don Juan
No the best way to create a social circle is to go out and meet real people in real life.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
you forgot the pub its way easier to make friends there
why?
When you start to talk someone buy a beer for you and him
and the talk will flow
He will buy you a beer you him blabla and at the end you know him better than you wish ;_;
why?
When you start to talk someone buy a beer for you and him
and the talk will flow
He will buy you a beer you him blabla and at the end you know him better than you wish ;_;
GaryUranga
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im starting to apply this pretty much figured it out myself, but yeah just getting in as many social things I can as possible