“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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How to respond when a chick pokes you on facebook?

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Victory Unlimited

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Ask her to meet you so that you can "poke" HER back in real life.

Just kidding...or AM I?

Seriously though, if you don't particularly wanna "put yourself all the way OUT THERE" by messaging her, you could try poking her back just to see of you can bring HER "all the way OUT THERE".

If you can pull that off, you can get past a lot of the romantic judo that some women will pull in order to get YOU to come across as being the one whose interested in THEM.
 

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I poked her back and she did not respond so I sent her a message about 10 hours later.
 

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"How to respond when a chick pokes you on Facebook?"

Explain to her how poking is very 2006. Also, after you poked her back, the later message was a no-no.

Now she knows she's got you. You're already behind the 8-ball.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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timmylivingalie

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Johnnyventana said:
"How to respond when a chick pokes you on Facebook?"

Explain to her how poking is very 2006. Also, after you poked her back, the later message was a no-no.

Now she knows she's got you. You're already behind the 8-ball.
Yea I messed up she did message me back but only to tell me what her boyfriend had got her for Valentines day.
 

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timmylivingalie said:
Yea I messed up she did message me back but only to tell me what her boyfriend had got her for Valentines day.
So tell her she can poke herself from now on.
 

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tell her you will poke her with her boyfriend as a team like she has never been porked ; )
 

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Victory Unlimited said:
Ask her to meet you so that you can "poke" HER back in real life.

Just kidding...or AM I?

Seriously though, if you don't particularly wanna "put yourself all the way OUT THERE" by messaging her, you could try poking her back just to see of you can bring HER "all the way OUT THERE".

If you can pull that off, you can get past a lot of the romantic judo that some women will pull in order to get YOU to come across as being the one whose interested in THEM.

Got this girl who I knew when we were kids, shes maried now, she had a thing for me then, I didnt realise, shes married now, keeps poking me, Ive just sent hert the above response ^^
will see how this goes
 
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