timmylivingalie
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Do you just poke her back? Freind request her, message her or what?
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
How to respond when a chick pokes you on facebook?
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Victory Unlimited
Master Don Juan
Ask her to meet you so that you can "poke" HER back in real life.
Just kidding...or AM I?
Seriously though, if you don't particularly wanna "put yourself all the way OUT THERE" by messaging her, you could try poking her back just to see of you can bring HER "all the way OUT THERE".
If you can pull that off, you can get past a lot of the romantic judo that some women will pull in order to get YOU to come across as being the one whose interested in THEM.
Just kidding...or AM I?
Seriously though, if you don't particularly wanna "put yourself all the way OUT THERE" by messaging her, you could try poking her back just to see of you can bring HER "all the way OUT THERE".
If you can pull that off, you can get past a lot of the romantic judo that some women will pull in order to get YOU to come across as being the one whose interested in THEM.
timmylivingalie
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I poked her back and she did not respond so I sent her a message about 10 hours later.
Johnnyventana
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"How to respond when a chick pokes you on Facebook?"
Explain to her how poking is very 2006. Also, after you poked her back, the later message was a no-no.
Now she knows she's got you. You're already behind the 8-ball.
Explain to her how poking is very 2006. Also, after you poked her back, the later message was a no-no.
Now she knows she's got you. You're already behind the 8-ball.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
timmylivingalie
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Yea I messed up she did message me back but only to tell me what her boyfriend had got her for Valentines day.Johnnyventana said:
PapiChulo
Master Don Juan
tell her you will poke her with her boyfriend as a team like she has never been porked ; )
Victory Unlimited said:
Got this girl who I knew when we were kids, shes maried now, she had a thing for me then, I didnt realise, shes married now, keeps poking me, Ive just sent hert the above response ^^
will see how this goes