timmylivingalie
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Do you just poke her back? Freind request her, message her or what?
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
How to respond when a chick pokes you on facebook?
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Victory Unlimited
Master Don Juan
Ask her to meet you so that you can "poke" HER back in real life.
Just kidding...or AM I?
Seriously though, if you don't particularly wanna "put yourself all the way OUT THERE" by messaging her, you could try poking her back just to see of you can bring HER "all the way OUT THERE".
If you can pull that off, you can get past a lot of the romantic judo that some women will pull in order to get YOU to come across as being the one whose interested in THEM.
Just kidding...or AM I?
Seriously though, if you don't particularly wanna "put yourself all the way OUT THERE" by messaging her, you could try poking her back just to see of you can bring HER "all the way OUT THERE".
If you can pull that off, you can get past a lot of the romantic judo that some women will pull in order to get YOU to come across as being the one whose interested in THEM.
timmylivingalie
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I poked her back and she did not respond so I sent her a message about 10 hours later.
Johnnyventana
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"How to respond when a chick pokes you on Facebook?"
Explain to her how poking is very 2006. Also, after you poked her back, the later message was a no-no.
Now she knows she's got you. You're already behind the 8-ball.
Explain to her how poking is very 2006. Also, after you poked her back, the later message was a no-no.
Now she knows she's got you. You're already behind the 8-ball.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
timmylivingalie
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Yea I messed up she did message me back but only to tell me what her boyfriend had got her for Valentines day.Johnnyventana said:
PapiChulo
Master Don Juan
tell her you will poke her with her boyfriend as a team like she has never been porked ; )
Victory Unlimited said:
Got this girl who I knew when we were kids, shes maried now, she had a thing for me then, I didnt realise, shes married now, keeps poking me, Ive just sent hert the above response ^^
will see how this goes