CrazyDude93
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i chatted to a girl to really late at night . Then she stopped replying and send me sorry i feel asleep . How do i reply her with a playful way ?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
How to reply "sorry i fell asleep" ?
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
CrazyDude93
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I searched but didn't found a proper post
soulforge
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I meant that in Sarcasm.. You created a thread about this.. Really.
Anyhow.. Just say its not a problem.. Then continue living your life.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Mike32ct
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She either did fall asleep which is understandable, or she made that up. But it’s too soon to tell.
Cut her some slack. You are worrying about nothing.
Cut her some slack. You are worrying about nothing.
RangerMIke
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"You were asleep? I couldn't tell the difference." Then tease her about being boring and challenge her to prove you wrong.
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Sorry I fell into a coma.
EyeBRollin
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Lmao.
Ignore that piece of **** text. Ghost, then ask her out in a week.
Ignore that piece of **** text. Ghost, then ask her out in a week.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
sazc
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Such a bullsh1t text
Don't reply, at all. Go NC until she reaches out again
Srsly - how fvcking hard is it to SEND a text saying "I'm off to bed/busy/gotta do things, TTYL" when you are off to bed/busy/gotta do things OR JUST BORED OF THE CONVERSATION?
Ridiculous
Don't reply, at all. Go NC until she reaches out again
Srsly - how fvcking hard is it to SEND a text saying "I'm off to bed/busy/gotta do things, TTYL" when you are off to bed/busy/gotta do things OR JUST BORED OF THE CONVERSATION?
Ridiculous
Doctor Europeo
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Op you banged her already? Too much texting before sex can put you in friendzone
devilkingx2
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If things aren't going well: "don't worry, I had company to distract me 
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If things are going well: ":O I can't believe you!!! Idk how I'll ever forgive you for this dishonor :'("
"If things are going well: ":O I can't believe you!!! Idk how I'll ever forgive you for this dishonor :'("
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Answer two days later with soorry I was in the shower... no but seriously dude.. you’re over thinking things and they can feel this sh*t I guarantee you
marmel75
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Lmao!!!!!
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
redskinsfan92
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No contact
flowtheory
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Bro..
CrazyDude93
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Lol , i went NC and she reached out today . We just talked for a few minutes then i set a date with her again and she said yes ( i asked her out once but she said she was busy , she wasnot sure , which is a shade of "no" ) . i've been in this situation for many times . I think I need to let the girls know that i know it was an excuse . And punish them so they won't do it again .
redskinsfan92
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Good job! One of the points of no contact is it builds attraction. Women love mystery. She probably drove herself crazy wondering why you hadn't messaged her.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.