You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Questions like this are hilarious. It's like saying "Money keeps coming to my bank account and it really really annoys me."Demystify said:Okay, so fat girls constantly hit on me and it really really annoys me. I want to know what I can say to a fat girl so she'll stop hitting on me and never bother me again for the rest of my life. Any tips?
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
fat chics do not equal money. Just be like a hot girl and make her work for your number and say "call me." Then, don't ever answer the phone. Problem solved.DonJuan11 said:Questions like this are hilarious. It's like saying "Money keeps coming to my bank account and it really really annoys me."
The point wasn't to equate money with fat girls, the point was to show his statement defies logic as he is trying to build up his own ego by telling us fat girls hit on him everywhere and anywhere he goes and it doesn't make sense. It means he gets hit on 24-7 by fat girls, when he goes to washroom, to work, to school, grocery shopping, on the train, in the classroom, where ever. So when he asks "I want to know what I can say to a fat girl so she'll stop hitting on me and never bother me again for the rest of my life." he can insult, put her down, spit in her face and or hit her, then she won't bother him. But when he tells us he is so attractive that no matter what he does the fat girl is smitten, it defies logic.Duffdog said:fat chics do not equal money. Just be like a hot girl and make her work for your number and say "call me." Then, don't ever answer the phone. Problem solved.
I don't think it's that easy to go for a fat girl's in-shape friends. If their friends know that the fat girl has a crush on me they might be more inclined to reject me because they don't want to go for a guy their friend is obsessed with.Bible_Belt said:then she will go tell all of her friends how sexy you are. And some of them...or their friends...might not be fat.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Agreed. Just pull a card out the female deck and say you have a girlfriend or are already seeing someone. Problem solved, right? Had to do that yesterday when a 50something hit on me. Just blatant and forward. I just told her I'm flattered, but I'm already seeing someone. Never mind the fact I was backing away slowly and creeped out like mad because it was like getting hit on by my mom or something...HeyPachuco! said:Round up a date,
Bring large can of DIET COKE,this is effective and sufficient way of exterminating any further fat trouble.
Nah seriously,just say you're not available, I mean how hard isit?
Same applies for any other female you're not attracted to who keeps bugging you,not just fatties.
Bible_Belt said:Fat girls need love, too! I always flirt back. In public, I am happy to hug a fat girl, kiss her on one of her chins, and make her feel attractive for one brief moment. Men might look down on that, but women do not. Women think ANY woman showing interest in you is better than no woman showing interest. You don't have to take the fat girl home. Just make her giggle and blush a little, then she will go tell all of her friends how sexy you are. And some of them...or their friends...might not be fat.
i tried this approach and it worked initially as i got close to one of her friends, eventually the fat ***** **** blocked me cos she couldnt take me being with her friend instead of herBible_Belt said:Fat girls need love, too! I always flirt back. In public, I am happy to hug a fat girl, kiss her on one of her chins, and make her feel attractive for one brief moment. Men might look down on that, but women do not. Women think ANY woman showing interest in you is better than no woman showing interest. You don't have to take the fat girl home. Just make her giggle and blush a little, then she will go tell all of her friends how sexy you are. And some of them...or their friends...might not be fat.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.